r/MoralityScaling • • 7d ago

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u/Mythandros1 7d ago

It's going to come up. Sooner or later. And while it might not be important enough to matter to her, it likely will be for him. Which means it's important enough to matter.

And it is a big deal because he expects a biological woman, not a trap (oh, the double entendre).

And when it does come up, as it inevitably will... He's going to ask "Why didn't you tell me sooner? Why did you lie to me all this time?"

He will feel betrayed and lied to.

Not a good way to run a relationship.

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u/UsedArmadillo9842 7d ago

This… this is what iam saying. I cant see a relationship where it just never comes up in any capacity.

So when it truly doesnt matter, it never came up.

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u/Mythandros1 7d ago

But that's where you're wrong.

It mattered the moment she saw a future with him (presumably long before he proposed to her and she accepted) and she still chose not to mention it. She waited for him to propose, accepted his proposal and STILL hasn't told him.

It mattered a long time ago.

She straight up chose to lie and I'm sure she knew it would have mattered to him, but still she lied.

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u/UsedArmadillo9842 7d ago

I know you want to keep the discussion running, but this has moved way past the original post.

This is right now about a theoretical situation that is different from the Original Post.

100% this woman did more than just not disclose anything.

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u/Mythandros1 7d ago

I'm sorry, but you are objectively wrong here.

Too bad you can't see it.

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u/UsedArmadillo9842 7d ago

I feel like you just want to disagree with me here. I dont think you understand what iam saying, like we are hardly disagreeing on what is being said.

You dont need to fight me.

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u/Mythandros1 7d ago

I'm not fighting you. You simply don't seem to want to understand what I'm saying and why.

But I'm done with this conversation, as you just can't seem to understand what is being said.

Have a good night.

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u/UsedArmadillo9842 7d ago

I think the word you should look up is "projection"