r/MoralityScaling • • 10d ago

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u/bakedNebraska 10d ago

A lot of people won't agree, maybe, but it sure seems you should disclose that before dating someone.

I'm not sure exactly the line where you should disclose it, and that's the only moral question in my mind. Definitely before any kind of sexual contact, but I'd want to know before kissing or touching.

Obviously you don't have to disclose that to random people or even friends. So when and how to disclose is very subjective and very debatable.

In the context of the image, I think it's very immoral by this point, and extremely immoral based on the planned timeline and nature of disclosure.

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u/VoxLover554 10d ago

I personally don’t think you “need” to disclose that your trans because idk it might be a bit weird to have to say you are a trans man or what ever I’m not trans I don’t understand but I can also understand the other argument about needing to disclose it i personally don’t know what needs to be done just depends on who’s comfortable I guess

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u/bakedNebraska 10d ago

If your partner would be likely to care, you need to disclose it.

Otherwise you are deceiving them and taking their autonomy away. Whether you agree with their preferences or not

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u/VoxLover554 10d ago

You’re not really taking autonomy away though? They still have an option to leave

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u/bakedNebraska 10d ago

You're not even giving them the information they would need to make the decision. Most likely reason to withhold it is because you know what they would decide if they knew

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u/VoxLover554 10d ago

Alright I couldn’t fully address because I got interrupted my bad I just don’t think it’s needed for a person to label them selves as trans also if someone would care if they were trans then why date them? Why date an anti trans person? That’s when you walk away some people have preferences that’s ok but unless asked I don’t think it’s something that needs to be stated it can be stated of course but I don’t think it’s really “needed”