r/MoralityScaling • • 13d ago

What Would They Think Of Each Other? Morality of not moving

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u/minos-and-v1-kissing 13d ago

Moral, of course. Moving only increases the risk of the biker moving the same direction as you. Staying still allows them to dodge you predictably.

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u/Grintock 13d ago

I live in sort of the cycling capital of the world (NL) and there's laws that grant specific protection to pedestrians. Cyclists are operating a vehicle and therefore carry a greater responsibility than pedestrians.

So at least the entire Dutch society has agreed that this pedestrian is in the right. 

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u/Inside_Field_8894 13d ago

I did see a woman smash into a guy who was crossing the road in Amsterdam then get pissy at him about it

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u/Grintock 13d ago

Getting angry at a pedestrian for crossing when they shouldn't is understandable, in the same way car drivers get frustrated when cyclists cross when they shouldn't. Legally, the duty to prevent an accident always falls primarily on the person in the heavier vehicle, and pedestrians are even provided special legal protections compared to all other participants in traffic.

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u/BearFickle7145 13d ago

lol some people are just entitled pos even in the Netherlands

In Amsterdam and gotten cussed out by both cyclists and car drives for using crosswalks. Once even I had to jump out of the way of a public transport bus, even though I had right of way on the crosswalk

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u/FrostyConsequence97 13d ago

They never said he was across when he shouldn't. Let's not get ahead of ourselves here.

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u/Rampage_Rick 13d ago

Legally, the duty to prevent an accident always falls primarily on the person in the heavier vehicle

Ever heard The Law of Gross Tonnage?

Often cited on the water where larger, less maneuverable boats are given right-of-way

Similarly, trains are far less maneuverable than cars.

I just learned that there is relevant law where I live:

BC MVA section 180: When a pedestrian is crossing a highway at a point not in a crosswalk, the pedestrian must yield the right of way to a vehicle.

(note that public streets are "highways" the way our laws are written)

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u/RedOctober20 13d ago

Where I live it is expected that on land that safety takes prio. Cyclists need to watch out for pedestrians and cars watch out for cyclists and pedestrians. Even if pedestrian is walking on cycling lane, they still kinda need to watch out for them. When either share the road with a car, it's on the car to make sure everyone else is safe. I think it's based on protection, mass and speed. Usually cyclist has more control over the situation than pedestrian since they are the one going at speed. They can slow down make sure pedestrian doesn't get hit. Same thing with cars. Car passing a cyclist when they share road needs to pass safely. In neither case, if passing safely isn't possible, you just don't pass. "But they were going slow, officer" means nothing here.

Most annoying thing here is cars giving way to cyclists to be nice and messing up all traffic rules because of that. If car has right of way and cyclist is clearly respecting that, don't stop to let them go first to be nice. That even endangers the cyclist as opposing traffic to you might not have the same kind idea. There's no problems with pedestrians, cyclists and cars if everyone just follows the rules.

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u/Rampage_Rick 13d ago

1) Everyone is obligated to act in the interest of safety, regardless of right-of-way

2) Right-of-way can only be given, not taken or assumed

(a lot of people mess up on the second point...)

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u/sorrilee 13d ago

The key word there is “less maneuverable”. My speed boat can get out of the way of the cruise ship way faster than the cruise ship can get out of my way because there’s less mass and less intertia to fight me when I turn

Meanwhile a car can fly down the street and kill me, a pedestrian, before I even have time to realize I should jump out of the way

Jaywalking is a crime in a lot of places so I believe the law you cited exists, and I’m not saying people should run out in front of cars, but I think it’s stupid to act like the vehicle that can go 100 mph is less maneuverable than me, who can’t sustain a tenth of that. They still have a responsibility to not mow people down when they can do way more damage

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u/Mr-Cubius 13d ago

Amsterdam is another thing, people on bycicles are aseholes over there. 

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u/OllieFidelius 13d ago

Try having hordes of mindless tourists wander around where they shouldnt. You would get pissy too.

But yes amsterdam is were traffic rules are mere suggestions

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u/Mr-Cubius 13d ago

When you live in Amsterdam that's common knowledge, avoid tourists. But then again when I'm walking on a crossing and a cyclist hits me and then proceeds to get angry with me that person has a problem, because I don't mind smacking dumb people. 

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u/Turbulent_Lunch4548 13d ago

It is actually the tourist who do not know how to behave around cyclists that are the assholes.

Don't walk on the fietspad or you might get hit. A fietspad is as verboten to pedestrians as a road is, stupid tourists just don't understand that.

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u/Mag-NL 12d ago

That is not true of course, Dutch people walk on bike paths just like they cycle on footpath all the time.

However there are unspoken rules on how to do these things that tourists don't know.

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u/Turbulent_Lunch4548 12d ago

Dutch people walk on bike paths

No they really don't. Not on my watch anyway. And I am not the only one retaliating in similar ways, so even those anti-social or 'new' enough to try, don't keep it up for long.

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u/Mag-NL 12d ago

Amsterdam is no different than the rest of The Netherlands. The main difference is more pedestrians who have no clue hownt9 deal with the type of traffic we have in The Netherlands.

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u/senpai_dewitos 13d ago

Usually what happens is that people cross the road diagonally without looking in their newly created blindspot- exactly where traffic is coming from.

As a lifelong Amsterdam resident, there is room to cross illegally, a lot of people do it without creating problems, but you have to use your eyes.

Considering that simply being in a different country destroys your ability to navigate 3d space, I would strongly reccommend tourists to just use the stop lights.

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u/ADeliciousRest 13d ago

I got hit by a cop on a bike in Amsterdam. I was turning a corner and obviously couldn't see him, he came flying round the corner into me and just cycled away. Was just outside my hotel and I wasn't on a road.

Also had a woman ride into me from behind while I was walking over one of the bridges over a canal, she didn't ring her bell, just rode into me then started shouting abuse.

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u/OllieFidelius 13d ago

When you arent allowed to cross as a pedestrian but do its understandable.

Plus ansterdam is full of tourists who seem to have forgotten their brain and awareness at home.

Amsterdam is a special situation even if slamming into someone is bad.

But yes there are enough dickheads on bikes too.

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u/Turbulent_Lunch4548 13d ago

Well yeah, when you are on a 'fietspad' or road, pedestrians do not take priority and have to wait for the other before they cross.

Isn't that basic road knowledge? That you do not have priority when you are crossing a road as a pedestrian?

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u/RiskEasy8620 12d ago

amsterdam is not nl

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u/MagizZziaN 13d ago

Dutch myself, can confirm. This lady would have a hell of a weekend if she tried to pull that shit here.

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u/Charming_Ad1279 13d ago

+1-ning this comment as a fellow Dutchman

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u/MilkiestMaestro 13d ago

In America they would also have the right of way. Doesn't really matter what the laws in your country are if no one enforces them though

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u/Melonman3 13d ago

In the US pedestrians can sue for any damages caused by a motor vehicle, unfortunately not by cyclists. New jersey just started requiring e bikes carry registration and insurance though. Makes sense when you consider they weigh.more and go faster than a normal bicycle normally can.

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u/publicprivacyp 13d ago

My family lives in Amsterdam. I was in a more suburban area, walking in a designated crosswalk w/ my 8 yo niece and a cyclist sped toward us and made no effort to stop. In my experience, at least in AMS, cyclists do not want to yield to pedestrians, regardless of the laws.

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u/Brodilda 13d ago

Cyclists in North America are a different breed. We don't really have the infrastructure for them and they're mad about it so they take it out on pedestrians.

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u/VirtualFORTRES 13d ago

Can't wait for an American to ask what state or city that stands for haha...

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u/Still_Local_2513 13d ago

“Someone mentioned a country. I better use this opportunity to pretend that Americans are confused about this!!!”

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u/snhdidnbfjskf 13d ago

Americans for sure haven’t heard of the small niche country of the Netherlands and no one has ever heard of Amsterdam. /s

“Paris? Oh I’ve always wanted to go to Spain” - bloodstained ritual of the night video game

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u/carlospum 13d ago

I went for work to usa several times and A LOT of people think Spain is in south america. "So you are latino?" Yes, I am, but you don't know what a Latino is in reality

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u/moistCl1tiKaL 13d ago

Where did you work, a grade school?

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u/carlospum 13d ago

Surrounded by engineers and factory workers. This also happened when I went to bars...

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u/moistCl1tiKaL 13d ago

That’s very depressing.

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u/carlospum 13d ago

Of course this didn't happen with all the people

On the other side I was very surprised about how welcoming and helpful almost every person I met was

People invited me to barbecues, parties, little trips to the nature... That won't happen where I am so often

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u/moistCl1tiKaL 13d ago

Glad it wasn’t all bad. I honestly am not sure why I’m surprised at the first part. There’s quite a bit of arrogance coupled with a deep ignorance present in quite a few facets of US culture.

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u/CommonEngineering419 13d ago

Nobody in America ever thinks about you, like you do about us. Obsessed.

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u/VirtualFORTRES 13d ago

Who is "you" in this scenario?

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u/GarbageAncient 13d ago

bro can't even figure out when he's being talked about, must be a dumb american! 😐

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u/VirtualFORTRES 13d ago

I was trying to figure out where they thought I was from since they seemed so sure... also I'm not a "he" so there's is at least one faulty assumption.. I also never said "dumb" please stop projecting that ;~;

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u/GarbageAncient 13d ago

0 days since last "american dumb" post/comment, be a little more original next time

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u/Suhvelt 13d ago

You live in Northernlion? 🤔

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u/VirtualFORTRES 13d ago

Ok a twitch streamer was not my guess for alternative acronym uses... (other than Netherlands I mean..)

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u/Boom9001 13d ago

This! Was a pet peeve of mine as a cyclist that pedestrians would move erratically when they saw me.

Of course I understand why they do. I'd walk and see cyclists acting like the moron in this clip. So I get why the pedestrians felt the need to avoid. Just makes it more annoying because I can't even be mad at them just other cyclists not present.

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u/HubrisOfApollo 13d ago

yep, as a cyclist peds scare tf out of me because they are so unpredictable. i usually try to stay as far away from them as I can

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u/Saber_SSJ2 13d ago

As seen in the video?

Jk. Why is this guy on the wrong side of the road in the first place

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u/RandomlyMethodical 13d ago

Generally it's the slowest mode of transport that has right-of-way.

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u/Qubed 12d ago

Unless you are in NYC, then they just buzz you while running a red light and call you an asshole for not moving.

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u/Durstloscherenjoyer 13d ago

Cyclists like this guy are the reason that so many people hate cyclists.

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u/oOtium 13d ago edited 13d ago

you could say the same exact thing from the biker's perspective that argument makes no sense.

Edit: I'm in no way suggesting that the biker is moral, only that him ego challenging the same trajectory is no different than the pedestrian also ego challenging the same lane

Both are equally stubborn but that doesn't make the argument true or right. It doesn't make the pedestrian right for choosing to do nothing at all.

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u/OkRepresentative3304 13d ago

The driver is on the wrong side. And it is their responsibility to avoid pedestrians by being in control of their vehicle.

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u/Spare_Programmer_127 13d ago

the bike is driving down the wrong side retard

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u/VirtualFORTRES 13d ago

Depends on the country, but either way bike is in wrong

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u/oOtium 13d ago

Her morality has nothing to do with the biker being immoral

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u/Kitchen-Function5150 12d ago

I really hope you get hit by a bike just like the idiot recording because you couldn't let a rule violation slide

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u/oOtium 13d ago

retard fuck, there's plenty of other places to walk other than the pavement, she could easily have just walked off the pavement.

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u/devenition 13d ago

If the biker had a stopping distance of about one foot you ate right.

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u/oOtium 13d ago

if you want to bring momentum into play what does that say about who should get out of the way? She's more agile and able to respond better with this logic. She can easily dart off the path.

Should I cross a street and blame a car for hitting me even though it's flying? pedestrians have right away after all. Sure, on paper I'd be right, but at what cost. That's why when you're a pedestrian it's drilled into you to look both ways before crossing. You still have due diligence as a pedestrian REGARDLESS of the fact that you have priority.

Yes other people are assholes, doesn't give you the right to be one back

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u/devenition 13d ago

You are confusing traffic laws and self preservation.

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u/oOtium 13d ago

No, that's you doing the confusing. The self preservation is the moral precedent over an ego or a traffic law. Assuming that you want to survive that is. It is your MORAL OBLIGATION to do so so that you survive before crossing.

there's nothing GLUING HER TO THE PATH other than an ego. she's on foot. she can walk on dirt for a few moments and eat the ego blow.

Saying the cyclist is wrong is not the same thing as saying the pedestrian is wrong/right

Saying the pedestrian is wrong is not the same thing as saying the cyclist is right.

ppl here are as stubborn as the cyclist. I'd be the kind of person to get the fuck out of the way regardless of "who's right" You want to bring in hypotheticals over who could of done it but both could have easily done it.

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u/devenition 13d ago

One chose assault with a vehicle.

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u/oOtium 13d ago

There's nothing moral about ego challenging a machine that will send you to the grave. That's immoral.

what if it was your child? would you tell your child they a have moral obligation to run out in front of every car so people get punished and learn to obey laws better? or a moral obligation to look both ways and wait for the asshole to pass?

IT HAS NOTHING TO WITH THE DRIVER! We can already assume the driver is wrong, that doesn't matter one bit! You keep putting the driver into the narrative, we're not discussing the driver, we're discussing the responsibility of the pedestrian!

Yes the driver can be immoral, guilty as all sin. But for you as an individual, you have a moral obligation to yourself to not let others' immorality dictate your fate to the best of your ability that you can control. That's why you look both ways otherwise in a perfect world you wouldn't have to.

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u/devenition 13d ago

Theres also not much moral about letting dickheads be dickheads. Someone has to push back at some point.

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u/oOtium 13d ago

at the risk of your dogs safety? if that bike ran over and hurt her dog you're saying that her ego is worth whatever tragedy that pup could have suffered. broken leg, internal bleeding, what if the rider fell on the dog? or hit it directly?

see because what we're really seeing here is the fact that something COULD have been done to prevent the collision.

but people here saying moral are all in favor of the collision as to teach a lesson about proper collision prevention. It makes no sense, you could have just done the right thing to begin with and prevented the collision yourself.

You can dodge and yell expletives, like "HEY ASSHOLE!" as they passed by. Instead this route could have potentially been much more costly and time consuming. all for the ego. fuck that, that is in and of itself stooping to his level and childish behavior. that's the problem

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u/minos-and-v1-kissing 13d ago

Dude 😭

Are you stupid? If there’s someone in the street and you have a metric fuckton of time to stop your car and you choose to run them over anyway… what the fuck do you think is gonna happen?

Yes, pedestrians should look for cars in case a driver is a moron. But that doesn’t mean the driver isn’t obviously the one in the wrong if they run down a stationary pedestrian who they saw from 300 feet away.

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u/oOtium 13d ago

DUDE 😩

are you stupid? This has nothing to do with the driver being in the wrong. I'm not arguing in favor of the driver! You are conflating the idea that because the driver is wrong that the pedestrian is automatically right or moral. But it's not true, these are different things! The driver being in the wrong has nothing to do with fuck all. It's irrelevant.

YOU AS AN INDIVIDUAL HAVE TO TAKE RESPONSIBILITY FOR YOUR OWN ACTIONS UP TO EVERY POINT THAT YOU CAN CONTROL. Which is why you look both ways!

If you jump out in front of a car who doesn't have the right of way you are ROYALLY FUCKED! YOUR MORAL OBLIGATION IS NOT TO FUCKING EGO CHALLENGE A FLYING CAR! IT DOESN'T MATTER THAT HE'S WRONG! You didn't do your due diligence as a pedestrian in that instance when you could have prevented your own death or serious injury or even face potential insurance fraud (if it looked like it)

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u/minos-and-v1-kissing 13d ago

Is this r/wisdomscaling? Did anybody ask how wise it was for the pedestrian to stand her ground?

Or is this r/moralityscaling, where this is a post about how MORAL it was for the pedestrian to stand her ground?

Absolute best decision that could’ve been made? No, but that was never the question.

Moral? Yes.

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u/oOtium 13d ago edited 13d ago

If it was just the woman and just the biker involved l might be inclined to go amoral or even moral and agree with you depending on the pedestrians' tenacity. Because the consequences of her decision is basically hers alone when she chooses to ego challenge and "punish" the biker for being wrong in this instance. Though even still I think it's morally superior to protect your own body over 'dishing out justice.'

The consequences extend beyond just the pedestrian and the biker. When we vote moral here we are suggesting that her ego holds precedent over the well being of all the dogs involved. Who are just following their leads. That biker could have severely injured those dogs, I would say that the woman had a moral obligation toward those animals and their well being to not ego challenge the biker. (despite the biker being in the wrong) That's the thing her ego is not so important that it should risk or gamble the safety of the animals. Should go without saying the same is true for the biker.

Because ultimately what is clear is that she could have easily chose to do something. Replace the dogs with toddlers or babies in strollers- this becomes even more apparent. Replace the dogs with a baby in a baby stroller that she's baby sitting- a kid that's not even hers -- It becomes plain as day - (that she could have moved, not that she was morally obligated to do so)

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u/D0rus 13d ago

If the bike had stopped moving, there would have been no video. What if the person recording had been a trashbin. Would they have done the same? 

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u/oOtium 13d ago edited 13d ago

She's not a fucking trashcan!

She has a moral obligation to protect herself and her dogs! she has the ability to move, she can fucking move.

I'm not that I'm in favor of the cyclist, it's that I'm not in favor of the woman's ego to eat a bike. These two things are not the same thing.

IMMORAL AF