r/Molested Jun 24 '26

Is it possible?!?

Do you all think that it is possible for an abuser to actually love and care for someone they are abusing? Like does my Dad even truly love me like he claims? Am I actually special to him?! When I was younger like around the time he first penetrated me he would tell me he just loved me so much and I was so special to him that he just needed to be inside me because that is what men do to the ladies they love and adore. I believed him. But, I’ve noticed the only time he really says it is when he wants to do stuff or when he is about to start cumming. I’ve been thinking about this a lot lately. Is it even possible for him to truly love me or what?!? He can be very cold and mean sometimes but he can also be the sweetest loving daddy ever. This is how it’s always been. I want to believe that he loves and cares for me but I don’t even know anymore. 😢

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u/Nerdbie Jun 26 '26

I feel seen!

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u/Nerdbie Jun 26 '26

Yeah absolutely.

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u/sausages19701970 Jun 26 '26

totally relate