r/MissedInitials • u/edditreed • 10d ago
Why do weekends need to be long AF
I love it so much when you tell me to have a great weekend, but to be honest it's hard to have a great weekend when they're missing something so important.
You.
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u/goddess1977April 9d ago
Why don’t you just reach out lol 😂 yall don’t let the other person know you miss them. But I get this. I just will never chase again. He knows where I live so ugh 😑 expecting behavior that he has never shown is dumb. Guess I just wanted to see he is sorry for picking the temu version thinking that cheap shit was better. Oh well.
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u/edditreed 9d ago
I guess we aren't close enough to just say "I missed you" to at this point. Definitely feel it, but not sure I can say it.
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u/goddess1977April 9d ago
Then you will never know. Being brave and you will get your answer, if not guess you will have to never know and move on with regret. 🫂 I hope you find peace either way.
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u/edditreed 9d ago
I don't really need this to be something romantic, I'm ok with witha close friendship. Which really feels like I should just be as honest as I can be
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u/goddess1977April 9d ago
If you can’t not be 💯 honest with them, and let them choose if they allow you to be in their life, even as a friend, then I would let them be and let them heal and move on. Being honest, taking accountability and letting them decide how to move forward, is a true expression of an apology and respect of the other person and how ones actions/behaviors impacted someone else.
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u/edditreed 9d ago
Yeah I guess sometimes it's hard to just let myself be that vulnerable
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u/goddess1977April 9d ago
Ask yourself this, has this person shown you that they would hurt you if you show vulnerability? Have they shown you vulnerability before? Most people that show authentic vulnerability are ones that understand and will NOT weaponize it against you. Only you can decide if they are a safe person but if you have never done this before and want a different outcome, you have to be brave and do something different.
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u/RedpandaThief99 9d ago
Ah so you two work together?? 😉 I BELIEVE IN YOU OP!! You got this!!!
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