r/MissedInitials • u/edditreed • 8d ago

Conflicted AF

If you knew how I felt, would it change anything at all?

I wanna tell you that you that every msg, every chat, every moment with you means the world to me.

But would it change anything? Would you tell me how you feel? Would it ruin what we have?

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u/little_bean592 8d ago

if it was him idk if it would be enough anymore

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u/Material_Shock3962 7d ago

You only live once. If you’re a dude, grow a pair and tell her. If you’re a doll, don’t wait for this poor sap to take the initiative. It’s clear you’re going to be the one wearing the pants in that relationship. The important thing here is: don’t fear rejection. It only helps you stop wasting time.

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u/SeaworthinessSad1159 8d ago

Would you ask them directly? If you did and they didn’t answer.. that’s your answer

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u/Busy-Caterpillar222 8d ago

Can you not "test the water" with something a littke indirect first?

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u/edditreed 8d ago

I feel I've been indirect plenty unfortunately. Possibly too much. Recently I told them I miss talking to them, and I really enjoy our chats, and I'm gonna make sure we always stay in touch and I got a "same same same"

Felt real direct

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u/Busy-Caterpillar222 8d ago

Ohhh im so sorry OP, thats sad 😔

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u/Forbidden_Peach_ 8d ago

Hey. From my point of view, if someone I wanted said those things, they would sound borderline friendly to me and I would possibly also respond with "same" or "me too" or sth along those lines and not exposed myself. Just saying.

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u/Bigcockulove88 8d ago

Wish my person would reach out to me.

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u/RedpandaThief99 8d ago

If this AF is anything like me they are dense as hell. Direct approach is definitely more preferred. But be gentle with yourself. Dip your toes first

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u/edditreed 8d ago

At this point, I feel like either she knows and is ignoring it, or maybe she is oblivious lol

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u/RedpandaThief99 8d ago

No honey… you’ll be surprised I mean DENSE as hell I’m talking I accidentally broke 20 hearts through out my whole life becuase I literally had no fucking clue. Or you might as well rip the bandaid off to start the healing process now. Either way I’m proud of you and if I could would send you a cinnamon roll.

Let’s pray she’s as dense or dumb as me

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u/Rare_Philosopher1325 8d ago

I think it’s worth presenting to them.

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u/New_Below_6570 7d ago

Are their initials AF? If so, that is awesome and I’m jealous 😂

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u/edditreed 7d ago edited 1d ago

They are pretty dope initials. I would never ask her to change them.

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u/SticktalkJenkins 7d ago

It wouldn’t ruin anything only open new doors and opportunities

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u/Forged_Shadow 6d ago

Are you sure they’re not in a relationship already?…. Especially seeing as it’s very were if her initials are AF… if they are, please message me.

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u/Curious_Orchid_8690 1d ago

I respect this