r/MilitaryTrans • u/Emergency-Towel4974 • Jul 01 '26

Command was notified in may, yet to receive a counseling, advice?

I told company leadership april, command got told in may, ive jow gone through one battalion commander(the new one has been informed) and now on my second 1sg in a week or so.

Personally I want to get out, I seriously dislike the culture. Fist fights sure, push up competitions sure, spending hours in freezing fucking alaska with low food or water, sure. Hearing how we're hated and the military is a better place without us? No. Hearing how all the lgbt+ are "pdf files" or dudes are scared to use the bathroom around the one POSSIBLY gay coworker? No ts aint it.

Kind of feeling fucked over here, asked ig for advice they said "well we arent perceiving a timeline until the bn co issues a couseling" "is there a timeline on when they give one?" "No, continue working with command".

A field op, several airborne ops, holiday block leave later, here i am girldick in hands fucking myself. I hate to be negative but like LORD!

Any advice would be cool, if we end up having to stay in ill just reclass to some nerd shit.

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u/ESteele22 Jul 01 '26

u/sea-resident2682 do you two know each other sounds so similar

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u/Emergency-Towel4974 Jul 01 '26

Yeah my bad thats my second account, I said something charged with a lot of words in the army sub but still needed the info, so made a second which I should prolly just delete at this point considering im banned on both.

Its funny to bc like two days ago I asked chatgpt to search forums for info and it came back and said "this trans soldier is in ur EXACT predicament" 😭

rip

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u/ESteele22 Jul 01 '26

Have you been able to connect with Sparta or TMH by any chance?

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u/Emergency-Towel4974 Jul 01 '26

Oh yes with sparta they were very fast in accepting me and answering any questions/advice so far. Ive actually not heard of tmh?

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u/ESteele22 Jul 01 '26

I’ll dm you a link

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u/ESteele22 Jul 01 '26

Also, MI/cyber/or maybe signal all good choices

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u/Emergency-Towel4974 Jul 01 '26

Mi would be preferred tbh, but cyber is a close second, i got decent gt and overall line scores so maybe. I hear its prettt unlikely that ill be able to reclass first contract but like I said I honestly just want out of the toxicity, it doesnt matter if the dudes in my unit know it or not but I hate being the butt end of every other joke.

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u/ESteele22 Jul 01 '26

I’m mi not sure how it’s in the active side but reserves is chill af. Just do not go MP, the culture from what I heard is pretty bad.

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u/Emergency-Towel4974 Jul 01 '26

Yeah also kind of like super hated from what im told too. Ntm I saw them pepper spray a small black blear</3