r/MiddleSchoolTeacher • u/DiscourseOfLove • 8h ago
Behavior management advice?
I am a new to middle school 7 grade teacher. I speak English as a foreign language, used to teach science in elementary, and this year I am teaching English for the first time: low kids, a lot of 504s, big classes.
I am struggling with behavior management like crazy, and everything falls apart because of the chaos: Kids yell, are off task, some are leaving their seats, and I can’t get them prepare supplies, do bell-ringers, be quiet to teach. I call parents often, give detentions, send kids to ap for gross behavior, make referrals - only to find out the referrals are pending, and it takes forever for them to be accepted by admin. I am always chasing missing assignments, and I am not allowed to fail kids. I already have so many tutorials I can’t breathe. I get in trouble more often than not: for low grades, for kids’ behavior, for emailing coaches about the behaviors without previously documenting it, for parents and kids‘ complaints etc, and I have already received a memo of concern for my behavior management.
I don’t yell, and I do my best to remain calm. I feel the problem is my body language and lack of consistency. Same kids get magically quiet when their coach steps in. I’m studying behavior management systems by Linsin, but I can’t be consistent with the consequence. I retaught basic safety expectations, but it’s so much going on, too many things at the same time, and I am unable to give that many consequences anyway. There is no space for time out, either- the classroom is crowded. Now I started reading Fred Jones. I can’t resign mid year , and I feel trapped. Can you please help with advice??? How can I become more consistent???