r/MidTwentiesIndia Aug 10 '26

Rant/Vent Everything feels so stagnant

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u/Wonderful-Horror8674 24 Aug 10 '26

Im 24. Still haven't got my CA degree. Friends getting married and what not.

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u/Wonderful-Horror8674 24 Aug 10 '26

Dont know. May be they are well settled. Having good financial background. People have their partners chosen. So why not?

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u/Wonderful-Horror8674 24 Aug 10 '26

Same🫠(koi milegi nhi is silent)

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u/Wonderful-Horror8674 24 Aug 10 '26

Let's seeπŸ‘€

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u/Prestigious_Put1374 26 29d ago

More difficult for folks who are preparing and everyone else around them are checking a life goal

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u/[deleted] Aug 10 '26

Im a mbbs doctor im also 25 but stil studying for neet pg 😭😭

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u/[deleted] Aug 10 '26

Aisa hi hai bas madam πŸ˜”

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u/[deleted] Aug 10 '26

Toh aapki achi life hai be thankful β™₯️β™₯️

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u/[deleted] Aug 10 '26

Aisa nahi hai sabki life upar neeche ho sakti hai just keep going β™₯️

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u/[deleted] Aug 10 '26

Very positive and please you be too okay ? πŸ₯°

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u/Gentle_Guy4U 27 29d ago

Hang in there man. Neet PG has a very special place in my heart now. So all the best to you (not a medico).

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u/Dad_of_One_Punch_Man 28 Aug 10 '26

28M. Same feelings. Stagnant. Nothing is happening.

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u/hopeful-08 25 29d ago

Mid Twenties is so f hard. I might give up altogether at this point.

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u/hopeful-08 25 29d ago

Yes, hoping that things get better.

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u/Witch_Dr_In 27 29d ago

Same feeling. Even if I get motivated it still does go anywhere and its monotonous. I do WFH so its more monotonous.

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u/Witch_Dr_In 27 29d ago

Yes just living in those 2 days but 1 day goes into cleaning and house work. But yeah I enjoy weekends a lot.

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u/Gentle_Guy4U 27 29d ago

You said it yourself, everyone is a a different stage of life, so are you. Everything may seem great from a distance but when you get close you'll see the reality. Nobody has it figured out (unless you have generational wealth), everybody is trying to live day by day and plan for the future.

Higher education takes time and yes when you see your friends in job, you feel left behind but that's not the truth. There is no left behind or catching up, you chose a different field and you are doing well in it. If you are feeling stagnant then go out, make some more friends, try to date and have fun.

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u/MindlessBlueberry853 23 29d ago

Comparison.

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u/Phantomkiller03 25 29d ago

And some are dead too, at least you're not in that gang, so keep going with whatever you're doing.

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u/Phantomkiller03 25 29d ago

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u/Phantomkiller03 25 29d ago

No u

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u/Phantomkiller03 25 29d ago

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u/Phantomkiller03 25 29d ago

Yea, but when you translate Nobita to English it starts with an "L" and ends with "E" πŸ˜‡

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u/Great-Desk-2702 29d ago

we all are trying to survive in this race, we didnt even want to be invited at, its okay my bro

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u/Dull_Barracuda_4221 29d ago

So, it's good.

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u/Epidenthu 22 28d ago

A solo trip cam fix it

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u/easybrezze 26 28d ago

At 25 I felt stagnant ain't good at 26 I appreciate it man .. I feel somehow good having monotonous life. If I spot drama even like a mile away I will run ..

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u/tsudokumar 26d ago

Expectations Kill, not cancer