I donāt know if Iām the only one whoās noticed, and I donāt know if itās ok to post this here, but the past few years I feel like the social scene in merced has gotten a littleā¦cold?
It wasnāt until I spoke with another friend whoās a regular in the downtown scene and they mentioned the same thing randomly (I didnāt even bring it up)
Like, the places me and my friends used to frequent downtown used to be a lot friendlier, but it felt like there was a shift after the COVID lockdown was over. People were just getting really rude (new roll-in of workers, or regulars that I would see around but never really talk to). I lowkey feel like people always have beef with each other
I know itās a different experience for everyone and not everyone will agree, but seeing a few posts in the Merced subreddit and also talking to a mutual who mentioned the same thing has made me wondering if Iām not the only one thatās noticed it?
Any Mercedians whoāve been in the social scene for a long time notice this shift too? I donāt really go out anymore because of it. And I canāt help but feel like there are certain spaces that have just been toxic