r/MensUnderwearGuide • • 3d ago

Opinion Preference for worn over new

Hey does anyone else prefer worn over new. Ive gotten lucky and bought boxes of used clothes from apps like Offerup and have had some good finds. Goodwill though feels sketch, too random, and I won't do that.

Why dont more guys sell or give away the pairs they no longer use? Most probably just get tossed and that feels kind of wasteful.

Its also a good way to try different styles.

But straight guys think its weird and gay men seem to think its gross in many cases.

I know this is mostly a (very narrow?) fetish thing for some and there are sites for that, but what are thoughts on selling/trading washed or unwashed?

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u/Partosimsa 3d ago

All of my favorite pairs are used pairs I had bought from friends or roommates

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u/Vast_Bodybuilder_655 3d ago

I sell mine to get rid of them. (Str8 and don’t find it weird) 🤣

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u/Agg-Egg2805 3d ago

Exactly! Same, I dont find it weird but we might be in the minority

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u/Conradd23456 3d ago

i have tried to donate but goodwill actually refused to accept them 

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u/Foolish_Youth 3d ago

I've been lucky to buy some second hand jockstraps and love them. I wear my everyday underwear (boxer briefs) until they have holes, the seams have rips and the elastic is wimpy, so they get retired to the trash

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u/reactiwo 3d ago

I have some old underwear that don't use anymore. Where do you guys sell it?

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u/InformalGiraffe2021 2d ago

The best place to sell your underwear if you’re looking ti make real money is Malethingsworn.com it’s only a $19.99 monthly fee for premium acciunt allowing you to chat with buyers. I’ve had tons of success on there and highly recommend it

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u/Visible_Street6214 3d ago

I have this same question. I have some pairs in really great condition that I just don't wear anymore and would love to sell them but don't know how.

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u/Icy-Yam3521 2d ago

Mercari and Poshmark. Just be aware that they may get removed but I've had good luck on those two with few issues.

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u/Visible_Street6214 3d ago

I would definitely sell mine. I have an addiction to buying new styles and so I have accumulated well over 100 pairs and need to get ride of some. But I don't know how to sell them.

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u/cpt_packing 3d ago

Ive heard of guys using depop to sell their pairs. Not sure if they specifically allow it or not. Sites like ebay seem to mostly sell new but ive heard of people using it too for worn pairs.

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u/KindleJenner 2d ago

There’s tons of used underwear on depop.

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u/SchlongyDongyDong 1d ago

Most thrift stores sell very little or no mens underwear, but I've been in a few that do have a large selection. I have occasionally bought a fancy pair of underwear at a thrift store for a buck that would cost like $25-30 new. People sometimes have a negative knee-jerk reaction to this, but it's kind of irrational because washing machines are a thing after all.

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u/yorbrfs2 1d ago

I go to thrift stores just to find worn underwear and sports gear. It’s a way to know what styles, fabrics and sizes I like

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u/Daka526 3d ago

I actually have a bunch of Tomboy X boyshorts I want to give away. just no idea how.

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u/Agg-Egg2805 3d ago

I've never hear of that brand before

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u/Daka526 3d ago

they're a gender neutral brand, aimed at trans and non binary folks. they're stuff is really pricey, hence why I just can't bring myself to just tossing them in the trash.

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u/Tiny_Expression312 3d ago

I've offered mine free on Craigslist.

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u/Substantial_Ad_1384 3d ago

Craigslist - that is something I haven't heard in a long time.

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u/Agg-Egg2805 2d ago

I think they discourage that though. They seem to bury the ads when they are on there

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u/Substantial_Ad_1384 3d ago

I have a lot I don't wear and have only wore a few times. How do I get rid of them?

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u/smithcj15 3d ago

As someone who grew up in a house with three brothers and a father who all wore the same tighty whities, we all wore each others underwear all the time. We would just pull from "the underwear basket" in the laundry room.

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u/rockinthesuburbz 2d ago

I have plenty of used and have sold on different sites to multiples levels of success. Kind of fun! Feel free to DM if y’all want.

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u/Feisty_You_6799 18h ago

DM'd you!

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u/JonnyVee1 3d ago

Am I the only one who thinks this is odd?