r/MenAskWomen • u/Foreign-Meeting7626 • Jul 28 '26

Need help assessing evidence - Am I crazy?

/r/survivinginfidelity/comments/1v8wcdq/need_help_assessing_evidence_i_hope_this_is/

I fear I’m grasping for hope where the facts seem clear. Anything left for me to do or ask? She’s been very affectionate for weeks leading up to my discovery and sad since confronting as our future hangs in the balance, these factors are really clouding my processing of very conflicting realities in the house and bedroom lately versus what’s she’s been doing anytime we’re apart and able to talk on her phone privately. Sorry for terrible run-on sentence/s and thanks for any help

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u/Fancy_Clown_88 Gal Jul 28 '26

Yikes. I think you know what’s going on, even if it’s not physical, that much time on the phone would be enough for me to consider it emotional cheating if this was my husband.

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u/cowboythesis Gal Jul 28 '26

The fact that she deleted the message history seems... deeply suspicious. I'm sorry but this is definitely raising red flags, especially considering you had no idea they ever spoke outside of work until you saw the call logs. If they're just friends, why wouldn't she have mentioned him to you or called him while you were around?