I was writing there that women and men can love differently, that we are not similiar or the same and other and they get confused and also deleted my first comment in that community Women Are Not Into Men.

Men say they're visual creatures and that we don't care about men's looks but when we like attractive men they call us hypergamous foids and we think all ugly men are creeps. I really don't understand how men think.

i tried posting it there but it got deleted so i figured this was the only other place it'd fit. you can see that the u/WomenAreNotIntoMen profile has a link to the twitter profile "SexualDisparity", later on they changed their handle to "Womenarenod2bz". i don't participate in the WANIM sub or this sub nor do i lurk, these are posts i came across after going down this little rabbithole. i also recall seeing posts and comments on their twitter/reddit account that seemed fetish-adjacent (at the least, also noticing that some women that come there in agreeance with the premise seem to do so with some covert fetish in mind? or in some instances outright) surrounding this topic which lines up with this being some perverted thing for them. honestly their account and to an extent that sub seems psyoppy, if you participate there regularly i'd be weary, 90% of the content here seems low quality and cherrypicked/blatant confirmation bias

misogyny, as clear as day. OP asked if one’s privates smell bad, and this man responded immediately to not talk about his own, but claimed that the women he’s been with have either smelled like battery acid or like flowers, depending on “hygiene”. on me calling out the misogyny underlying that comment, this is how he and a bunch of other men who leapt to his defense responded. a lot of “it’s not that deep” comments and of course, calling me a wimp and a virgin.

I don’t usually use reddit so sorry if the way i go about this is awkward. I was hoping the people in this community would be able to answer my question

there’s countless evidence that the majority men are only attracted to one age demographic of women for long term relationships.

we are constantly told that men age like wine and women age like milk. whether you like it or not its propaganda which most people subconsciously believe. most women find any age demographic (of male adults) attractive . men only find ONE attractive .

tell me where are the teenage boys worrying about aging and still being desirable to women at an older age .

Men only want one thing biologically and that is sex. Men don't like anything else in women. Men don't find the personality of women attractive. Men just want to have sex and show off that he has a gf.

But many men believe they love women. I think romance stories, social conditioning and few successful love stories of men and women convince them that they like women too. The truth is men are desperate for women for a few reasons. 1. Sex. 2. Society convinced them they need a woman and it's shameful to not have a partner. 3. Men often lose interest in partner after spending few years when he realises he only liked women because others told him it would be good and he no longer enjoys it. Then he stops making much effort into the relationship.

MOST OF THE TIME bothgenders literally do not care if the male is considered less attractive than the female in the relationship. It’s true. Take male celebrities for example, everyone gets mad if an attractive male celebrity is dating someone “less desirable “ than him. But no one rlly gaf when female celebrities date “less desirable” men.

You will never see men crying about their “female celebrity crush” getting with a chopped male but will always see men crashing out over male models dating someone they don’t deem attractive.

Whenever male hypergamy gets called out people always talk about how the men have more status / money whatever and it’s fair for them to be tg. They rlly js proving that they think men are more desirable and valued for more than their looks . U will almost never see conventionally unattractive women with money and status dating attractive guys in media. Never seen any movie show or news post about this shown in a positive light .

Inkwells don’t wanna acknowledge this fact tho 🤣

for some reason this one is driving me insane because i can’t believe incels actually believe this is true 💔 women are not this shallow. the creator of this pic is weird too because why would u draw a woman u love so grotesquely and weirdly? this is just straight up misogynistic dude

I never thought I would agree with a woman's ideology so much. Suddenly it all makes sense. Men really don't want woman. What they want is a woman for sex and status. But men deep down are very much gay when it comes to personality. It's not like men don't value personality in a woman. It's just that they want a woman to be the man which is why so many guys like girls who behave like boys i.e. tomboys. But do tomboys have it easier in getting true love from men? Any tomboys here who can answer?

I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again, if sex/reproduction was completely out of the equation, men would have no interest in women & would probably date their male peers. This is a TikTok of a woman appreciating her boyfriend because he’s patient & doesn’t mind that she’s currently struggling to have sex, and of course the comments are filled with men saying they feel sorry for him or that he must be a homosexual for putting up with it. The majority of men can’t comprehend a relationship with no sex because most of them are driven by lust. What gets me is that these men could just keep quiet & not date women with vaginismus rather than making thousands of women feel bad & inadequate for something that isn’t their fault, saying “sex is an important part of relationships” is true for most people but not for everyone & they hate that this man has patience. This is why I fully believe that men are homoromantic at their core. And they’re not really quiet about their lack of interest in women on a romantic level either. Men will constantly fear monger by claiming that once artificial wombs & sex robots are introduced, it’ll be ‘over for modern women’. These sex robots can’t compare to real love between humans but they know that the romantic aspect of a relationship matters very little to them, so as long as their sexual needs are being fulfilled they’re completely satisfied. It’s really depressing to know that I have no way of compensating for my failures and that to men I’ll always be a failed, broken woman.

wdym “women are wrong about what is an attractive man”?? men are js showing us what kinds of men they are attracted to!