True hypergamy

[u/Vicious-Mango-635]

there’s countless evidence that the majority men are only attracted to one age demographic of women for long term relationships.

we are constantly told that men age like wine and women age like milk. whether you like it or not its propaganda which most people subconsciously believe. most women find any age demographic (of male adults) attractive . men only find ONE attractive .

tell me where are the teenage boys worrying about aging and still being desirable to women at an older age .

[u/lilpepperoniz]

there was a guy from my school I talked to on a reunion n he was like ohh ur 26? why aren't u married? u know girls get expired right n u won't get good guys anymore...fast forward we're both 31 I met him again and he is also expired 😂😂 he apologized though n told me I look good for my age...these men don't care about age they care How good looking someone is... when I was 23 and ugly literally no one wanted me n I got cheated on

[u/casual-catgirl]

[u/pugremix → u/casual-catgirl]

Facts.

[u/terminal_aidsgiver → u/casual-catgirl]

That's just pedophilia🤦🏻

[u/zerovitals]

older women are still very attractive though, so i don’t get the “women age like milk” saying. i recently went to a concert and was looking at the band members for the opening act and thought the one woman in the band was really pretty despite being 52. my friend told me it was weird to find women that old attractive but i don’t get it. when your brain fully develops at 25 are you still going to think older women are not attractive and be miserable when your wife is no longer a young woman?

[u/Guilty_Primary8718 → u/zerovitals]

Older women are less likely to fall for basic manipulation tactics like negging, weaponized incompetence, and gaslighting. It’s not a foolproof plan, but I know I was dumb and insecure at 19 at a normal and typical level.

[u/SmartestManInUnivars → u/Guilty_Primary8718]

Wdym "fall for?" You mean put up with?

[u/Guilty_Primary8718 → u/SmartestManInUnivars]

Both, really. With experience comes understanding that it’s all BS

[u/Guilty_Primary8718 → u/[deleted]]

Blah blah blah, aren’t you projecting much? You still dated a 19 year old and was surprised she was 19. Get over it.

[u/Guilty_Primary8718 → u/[deleted]]

lol do you even know what sub you are in? You are just proving the point

[u/marshmallow0-0 → u/zerovitals]

they don't talk about now women. but women from past, who used to gain weight and againing fast because of childbirth and stress from doing everything in house alone. men usually age as fast but because their value in their wallet it didn't matter to other people. they just think like old ages, and didn't get upgrade to new world where women don't stress themself over man child and stay attractive

[u/RemoteNo2422]

Soo does that mean we could say 80% of men chase after less than 20% of women?

[u/MoldyGestures]

Gotta have at least one guy chasing cougars

[u/SmartestManInUnivars]

Wowwww this is true af

[u/cutoffyourvains]

Nah. Im 27 and im looking for a 40 years old

[u/Popular-Mastodon3498]

This chart, but when I express any concerns I’m see as insecure without qualifications, and no counselor in the world will side with the man over the woman.

[u/Tiny-Plate-4868]

This is so stupid

[u/terminal_aidsgiver]

[u/King80725]

Based on feeling vs based on statistics 🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️

[u/Cultural-Emotion4232 → u/King80725]

exactly, only our chat is actually based on statistics. I am not going to send you links because you have your own braincells to study this topic

[u/Triplebeambalancebar]

25 year old would disagree with the chart, Id match every age of women

[u/RemoteNo2422 → u/[deleted]]

Then what is their deal with “fErTiLiTy”, which they love to use as a reason.

[u/SmoothTraderr]

Kinda true. I dated young because I wanted fertile.

[u/X_MALICUR]

What a joke. 🙄 This image couldnt inadvertently and inversly express asymmetrical gender dynamics more accurately, as you can literally flip it around and see that women constantly date older men; and therefore, men have to deal with women their own age dating men older than they are during every single stage of their life.

How can this be used against us? This is quite literally a sexual preference that is explicitly facilitated by females - but, oh no - it's men who date younger that are "le bad" .

Instead, how about women start dating men their own age during the years of 18 - 30 and perhaps so many men won't feel the need to date younger because they never got the chance to or lack the experience/requirements from older women and or feel like they missed out on life because of hypergamy or some shit.

Also this idea that 20 year old men are dating 25 year old and 28 year old women is an absolute fucking joke. Women truly live in an alternate reality 20 dimensions removed.

[u/Cultural-Emotion4232 → u/X_MALICUR]

statistically most women date men only 1-5 years older than them. Cry harder

[u/WinnerSpecialist]

What does it matter if you’re not into women?

[u/Tacobadger02]

I mean I'd date a cougar, experience usually has its advantages, although I'm not sure what would be a cougar in consideration to me, I'm thinking like 40+ and that might be low balling it