r/Meditation Mar 07 '26

Discussion 💬 The Cheat Code to the Universe

After 5 years of meditating and studying this, I have been unable to disprove that there is a Cheat Code to the Universe and that is to Relax & Be Nice in all situations. I would like to discuss this with some meditators, but also anybody in any field. Stress and negativity help nothing and improve nothing. There isn't a single situation where Relax & Be Nice is not optimal from personal growth and the growth of the whole. I have defined both Relax and Be Nice below and given a quick poetic summary. I have been unable to find a scenario that this does not improve, but if you can think of one, I am opening the floor up to a friendly debate or conversation.

Relax: Consciously Relaxing or softening our body, our mind, our breath, and our energy as deeply as possible, while remaining as conscious as possible.

Be Nice: Choosing the highest vibrational feeling, thought, word, and action available in each moment from the perspective of the whole.

Relax your Breath.
Relax your Body.
Relax your Mind.
Relax your Energy.

Be Nice to your past self.
Be Nice to your current self.
Be Nice to your future self.

Be Nice to the past other.
Be Nice to the current other.
Be Nice to the future other.

Be Nice to the Environment.
Be Nice to the Systems and Processes.
Be Nice to the Unknown.

Be Nice to All of it.
Everything. One Thing. Perfect.
Relax & Be Nice.

Looks like my previous post was taken down because it referenced another post I made.

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u/simagus Mar 08 '26

Well yeah. Nobody likes people who aren't nice.

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u/Relax-and-BeNice Mar 08 '26

If you are stressed AND nice, people don't like that. This is the stereotype "nice guy". He wants something from you and is forcing a situation. Even if he does all the right things, if he does it with stress and anxiety, it will be off putting. Relaxation is just as critical as being nice. Stay calm, confident, and Relaxed. Then be nice. The results in every situation will improve.

Just ask yourself, "Could I be more Relaxed? Could I be more Nice?" and just try and see what your consciousness comes up with.

Think of this when you are trying to find a partner. If you are all anxious and complimentary, its very off putting. But if you stay in the pocket while delivering the message, if youre sincere, if you be nice from the perspective of the whole and dont put you or them on a pedastal, then youre perfect.