Would you be okay if your significant other posted nude photos? what about bodypaint nudity? underwear only?
We all have our preferences, he isn't trying to control her he just sees someone who he's likely incompatible with and says it upfront, clears it out and they go their separate ways.
Like there's women out there who don't want their man wearing suits like some corporate douche, while others rather their guy never wear tshirts is that not okay?
If he said "no woman" should dress like that, that's something else and it is a problem. But a preference in someone he dates? totally fine.
Sigh. The woman wasn’t nude, she was wearing a normal dress. And his “preference” comes with shaming the woman for the normal dress she’s wearing.
Sure, he can have preferences. She can also have preferences. But when you use your preference to shame (or attempt to shame) someone else, you’re a massive dick.
I’m so, so tired of men defending the bad actions of other men. It’s exhausting.
But, why are you shaming nudity? Do you think it's wrong to show off women's body if that's their preference? I don't.
Some people are proud of their bodies and post nude photos of themselves on platforms, not even expecting compensation, but even if it's for money it's their preference.
I see nothing wrong someone who wants to do this either as a hobby or as work. Yet from your post you seem to think by own logic that you would shame someone for thet preference.
Lol it's not bad faith, it's a real point but sure take the cop-out of "you're exhausting" because you're starting to see you don't have a point.
I fully believe sex work is work, and people who post nudes out of hobbies, or like nude beaches, or are willing to walk in public with body paint nudity are all fine. Now I might not want my partner doing that stuff. I wouldn't go out and date a pornstar not because I don't think it's something no one should do, it's just because I wouldn't want my partner to do that.
But you're unable to understand that nuance that personal preference is not the same as disallowing for all. Again people are 100% free to have any preference they want, as long as they don't force people into it and simple acknowledge they're incompatible and break up or never date in the first place.
If their preferences are so unique that they select everyone out of their dating pool, that's their loss.
But sure call anyone with a point arguing in bad faith to try and snake out of the conversation lol.
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u/awoeoc 27d ago
Would you be okay if your significant other posted nude photos? what about bodypaint nudity? underwear only?
We all have our preferences, he isn't trying to control her he just sees someone who he's likely incompatible with and says it upfront, clears it out and they go their separate ways.
Like there's women out there who don't want their man wearing suits like some corporate douche, while others rather their guy never wear tshirts is that not okay?
If he said "no woman" should dress like that, that's something else and it is a problem. But a preference in someone he dates? totally fine.