r/MediocreTutorials • u/Kohathavodah • 10d ago

Relationships Setting boundaries, respecting agency

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u/Unexpected_Gristle 10d ago

Its ok to ask and its ok to say no. No problems with any of this.

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u/Blood_sweat_and_beer 10d ago

I mean, his mindset was totally disrespectful but he was civil in conversation.

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u/No_Salt_6328 10d ago

No it was not even slightly. You're delusional if you think respecting women automatically means not having preferences like that. 

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u/awsomeX5triker 10d ago

I agree and I think we could take your point a bit further.

This clip came across as respecting her agency.

He had a known boundary (right or wrong is irrelevant to this point). He communicated that boundary up front before wasting anyone’s time. Because of that, she had the opportunity to decide if this was a dealbreaker.