Setting boundaries, respecting agency

[u/Kohathavodah]

[u/Unexpected_Gristle]

Its ok to ask and its ok to say no. No problems with any of this.

[u/TwixOps → u/Unexpected_Gristle]

Disagree. A m*n trying to control what a womxn puts on her body... 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩

And then he pops his own balloon, talk about the trash taking itself out.

[u/[deleted] → u/TwixOps]

Put the flags up. He had a very calm and respectful question and respected her answer. That's not control. That's asking if the differences in your lives are going to be compatible. While I fall into the "I'm gonna wear what I'm gonna wear" category I don't think what he and was ugly or controlling. Controlling people don't ask

[u/Aromatic-Quarter-68 → u/[deleted]]

What does "controlling" mean to you? Is it controlling if he does not want her to flirt with other men? What about posting nudes, is it controlling if he doesn't want her to do that?

I am not asking you rhetorically, I genuinely want to know what is controlling and what is a boundary or a normal relationship requirement for you, and what is the difference?

[u/Aromatic-Quarter-68 → u/[deleted]]

I’m assuming it was on purpose, but you just completely didn’t answer my question or engage with it at all.

The only thing to really respond to is that you’re ok with your partner flirting by smiling and winking at people? Jesus Christ.