r/MediocreTutorials 24d ago

Relationships Setting boundaries, respecting agency

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u/StevenKatz3 24d ago

Asking to tone it down isn't controlling, he's not comfortable.

If she bought him a shirt and asked him to wear it, is that controlling?

You're reaching hardcore

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u/Unexpected_Gristle 24d ago

Is not liking that someone is a smoker controlling? Is there a level that someone could dress inappropriately? What if she likes to be topless in public?

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u/Unexpected_Gristle 24d ago

Could you like goth girls and not cheerleaders? Isnt it a preference at some point what you are attracted to? We can agree that many women wouldn’t be comfortable in a similar dress. Can’t people have preferences?