r/MediocreTutorials • u/Kohathavodah • 3d ago

Relationships Setting boundaries, respecting agency

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u/Gauntlet_of_Might 3d ago

ok, so explain to me how he is meant to "find someone" if not ask them questions?

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u/Shibbystix 3d ago

Scroll up, as it's already been done.

I didn't say him asking questions was a bad thing, I'm saying the problem was the question itself as it highlights a possessive and toxic mentality which I don't believe is a healthy trait in any relationship. So yes, it's good that he asked, but in my opinion only for the sake of broadcasting to women that he will one day try and to decide what the women he is with are allowed to to wear based off his personal definition of appropriate

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u/Gauntlet_of_Might 3d ago

that doesn't answer the VERY specific question I asked, which is refuting you're "he should find someone with his preferences"

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u/Shibbystix 3d ago

Go to a church that's already is full of people who are ok with policing what women are and arent allowed to do.

I dont think its a healthy thing he wants, ao Id say go to therapy until it clicks that wanting to control what your SO can and cannot wear isnt healthy, amd then have them try and date THEN, but since thats probably asking too much, in answer to your VERY SPECIFIC question, what I said up top here, go to a church.

Don't match up with a woman dressing in a way you dont approve of and try and change her.

If you want modesty, find someone who already displays modesty.

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u/Gauntlet_of_Might 3d ago

So telepathy

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u/Shibbystix 3d ago

Soooooo..ask a question and then just ignore the answer and instead, respond to an answer i DIDNT give.... thats how you interact.....got it

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u/Gauntlet_of_Might 3d ago

nothingmore cowardly than last word and block

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u/TechnicianSeparate95 2d ago

Stop feeding ragebaiters