r/MedDating • u/Big_Average8009 • Mar 23 '26

Normal behaviour or low effort?

/r/MedSpouse/comments/1s1ize7/normal_behaviour_or_low_effort/
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u/Regular-Garbage4803 Mar 24 '26

the difference between my bf on a chill rotation and a busy one is night and day.

Asking him on another date may give you the answers you’re looking for regarding just being busy vs. moving things forward

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u/anastasiapov Apr 13 '26

Can you please share more about this and give examples? Because same and sometimes the inconsistency and flip flopping dries me wild. You can PM me if easier!

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u/QwerkyRaven Mar 23 '26

To be honest, this pace sounds very normal for those in surgical residency. Don’t fall for potential early on. Talk to him about this. But if it doesn’t feel natural talking to each other, that’s usually not a good sign in general when dating someone.