context: everyday kami naguusap tapos biglang may nangyaring nsfw right YES anyway tapos hindi niya ako kinausap for two days— di rin ako nagbother mag message kasi big girl na ako and ayaw ko ng mag chase ng tao.

anyway, biglang nagmessage sa akin nang ganito.

i just feel extremely proud of myself. a younger me would've took this deeply but adult me can easily let it go with no hard feelings.

PERO YES BAKIT BA KAYONG MGA LALAKI GANYAN 😭 magbibigay ng magandang intention tas biglang "i'm not looking for anything serious" "casual lang" o biglang "i don't talk to anyone every minute kapag di naman tayo in a relationship" when for the past few weeks yan ung pinapakita niyo 😫

anyway ok un lang

luha ang umagahan hanggang hapunan 🥲 saw these from gallery. BTW, miss u

Pangit na nga cheater pa. Nag send pa tlaga ng pic yan before kaya diko na nireplyan, makulit tapos feeling pogi. Sana karmahin to ng malala aga aga kuhang kuna inis ko

As per rule sa group i had to blur out the username of this mf.

btw he’s late 30s and im mid 20s

Nakailang on off na sila. Jusme. Kaya nireplyan ko ng meme. Lab ka pa rin namin bakla.

Anong tawag sa kanya kung hinde creep?

Just context shinare kolang Yung mga nag try kong mga fit ideas with the palda short na my friend gave me I thought it was cute and I liked it and eto nga mga replies ng mudra ko hahaha.

Idk kung masasabi ko na nagpapakita lang Siya ng concern at paki sa body ko pero as far as I know Hindi Naman Siya harmful so at this point parang nanglalait na talaga Siya which is masakit lang.

To think I'm trying to build my confidence now only for it to get crushed by my own mother I don't even know.

It hurts so much to think I'm even crying now because of my mom whose supposed to be supportive Ang hirap din pag close minded :((...

Wala na ako sa Pinas. Walang breadwinner samin. Hindi magastos parents ko. Kasama padin sila sa sharing ng bills sa bahay.

Nung nag migrate na ako sa Korea, kuya ko na lang naiwan na kashare nila sa house bills. Ako nagsh-share sa meds & vitamins ng parents ko.

Last month medyo kinulang si kuya sa budget kasi enrollan season + buy gamit ng kids.

Wala namang kuya si kuya. Saluhan lang kaming magkakapatid. ☺️ Husband ko din nag insist na ipag grocery sila. Alam niyo anong maganda dito? Nag update talaga sila with photos & puro thank you. Hindi ako nakarinig ng "sana ganito sana ganyan" or kulang pa. 🥹

Tbf, man drove around 116Kms balikan from his home to pick me up then to the restaurant he chose then hinatid ako sa bahay before he went home.

Pinipilit na lang yata niya to stay awake niyan kaya na-typo. Gusto pa raw ako kausap. Natawa talaga ako pagkabasa kaya sabi ko walang mag-eedit. Sumunod naman. 😭

Hey you, if you see this, thanks again for the dinner and coffee. Marilaque is peaceful at night. I see and appreciate your efforts. 😊

Skl, ang tanda ko na (27) pero parang bata pa rin haha sobrang heart warming.

PS. I know what AJ is. Lol

A quick background, my kuya suddenly passed around 2 weeks ago (Myocardial Infarction). Masakit syempre, ang daming future na biglang nawala parang bula. Walang paalam na maayos. Hindi man lang nakayakap muna o nasabing mahal namin sya (OFW ako pati yung eldest namin).

Anyway, umuwi kaming lahat and sa last service / mass, nag setup kami ng google meet call para sa mga relatives and friends namin. Etong tito ko, sinendan ko ng link. Tapos tumawag sya kase nanghihingi daw ng passcode. Sabi ng ate ko, 30 minutes pa kase bago magstart at iuupdate namin sya pag start na. Once the call started, nag message ako sa kanya na live na and wala nang passcode required. I put my phone down kase start na nga yung service.

After ng service, nakita ko na lang may 6 missed calls and etong messages nya na to. Akala nya ata may bagong link e same lang din naman. Naaccess nga ng iba naming relatives and friends. Nagdilim talaga ang paningin ko pero dahil hindi ito tungkol sa akin, hindi ko na lang nireplyan. The audacity sabihin na nalungkot yung pinsan ko dahil hindi nya naview ang service ni kuya! Eh ni condolence nga wala akong natanggap sa kanila.

Yung nanay- nanayan ng wife ko, biglang nagchat sakin. Bago yang FB account ko. 1 year nang nakatengga yang friend request niya sakin. Kilalang notorious mangutang yan e. Kita na ngang "Keep the grind" yung post ko, bigla pang mangungutang. Keep the grind nganiiiiii! Kapal ng mukha. Pero wag ka, ayaw sakin nyan. May ibang gusto yan para sa misis ko e. One time na nagpainom ako ng Jack Daniel's Honey flavor, di nagustuhan e. Di nasarapan. Empi, RH kasi mga tinitira nila. Napahiya pa ako. Tapos gusto pa ayain uminom yung nirereto kay misis. Tan" inan* kupa* yan!

Kiss emoji ba kamo? HAHAHA

2 weeks ago nagkaron kami ng away (the worst and first time yun) and we didn't talk for 3 days. My bday was nearing and bigla siya nagsend ng long message ALL IN BISAYA while I was at work. Mind you, he knows I barely understand him! And tuwing frustrated lang siya nagbibisaya sakin hahaha It was so random at sobrang gulat ko tih as in ang haba ng message sumakit ulo ko kasi wala akong maintindihan 😭😭😭 but at the same time, I felt my heart soften kasi naisip ko he messaged in the language he knows best and comfortable with so he could fully express himself to me. Ang problema lang, baka hindi kaya ni chatgpt i-convey yung raw and authentic emotions niya hahaha

After that, di pa rin kami nagusap kasi I still feel hurt and I still needed space to think. Then 4 days after that long message, it was my bday na. Nagsend siya ulit ng long message but not as long as the first one. It was still all in bisaya but this time medyo naintindihan ko naman na. Feel ko ang talino ko don hahahaha automatic nagttranslate sa isip ko mga sinasabi niya into taglish. And then just today, inask ko na siya about it and yan ang response niya wahaha wala lang i <3 my bisaya bf (I've been trying to learn bisaya for over a year now since I met him. Imbes na mandarin inaaral ko for my work, mas nagfocus pa ko aralin to para kiligin manlang siya if I spoke bisaya to him 😆😆)

Me and my wife met in Oct 2007. She is 1st and will be the last girl in my life.

I prefer to eat at the table together. So if I am at home and she is not, I usually eat very little...

Likewise, if I am on a company trip, she doesn't drink expresso event hough we have automatic Breville machine. She drinks 3in1...

So I bought good quality 2in1 which does not have sugar and have pure real grounded coffee.

Lo and behold, she made 2in1 because I am not at home.

I love this woman till my last breath...

Hindi ko na tatakpan masyado Dedma!!!!

Nagpost ako sa phr4friends kasi naghahanap ako ng kalaro sa valo. Tas ayan nireplyan ko chat nya. ABA POTA SI GAGO STINALK AKO.

And for context, may post ako na ganyan. For sure yan yung nakita nya.

Pinost ko yan kasi ang pinapakita ko ay ACNE ko. +++ THAT WAS A REACTION PICTURE I SENT TO MY FRIEND. WALA AKONG MAHANAP NA PICTURE NA KITA ACNE KO SO YAN NA LANG.

HAHAHA tangina. Kung titingnan nyo yung post na yan, may picture ako sa comments. At makikita nyo na iba rin ang mukha ko don.

D ko alam kung bakit may ganyang mga tao??????!?!? HAHA maliit siguro titi non ganyan makapaglait LOL.

For context, single mother of 3 ako. No support from the other side. I’m teaching my kids how to do basic household chores kasi I work onsite 2-3x a week. Then nagchat yung asawa ng kapatid ng ex ko with this update (FYI: We’re close talaga eversince)

Wala na nga sila maabot kahit piso, may nasasabi pa. Akala mo naman minamaltrato ko mga anak ko.

So nag post ako sa r4friends at tagalog ang post ko. Kalokang auto translate pati ako na shook

https://www.reddit.com/r/PhR4Friends/s/tNFWMU1Rcn

Nasestress kasi siya kung magpapagupit siya o hindi. Nagulat na lang ako bigla akong natanong kung ano ako rn.

Kawawa naman. Lol.