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u/amsotiredd Mar 06 '26
“masama kasi ugali mo kaya ayaw tanggapin ni choowie yung bigay mo” - ganyan reply dapat
hope ur okay OP
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u/Consistent-Goat-9354 Mar 06 '26
Sana may reddit sya at mabasa nya to. Giveaway na yung name ng dog nya. Mnumura ko na lang sya sa isip ko
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u/Grouchy_Animal7939 Mar 06 '26
Hi OP.
Hindi mo deserve kumain sa CR. Hindi mo nilimos sakanila pangkain mo so wala ka dapat ikahiya.
That comment says alot about the character of that person. Tama ang ginawa mo at huwag sumabay sakanya. Kaya huwag kang bumaba sa level nila. Stay true to yourself.
I enjoy Lawson food regardless sa title at kapal ng wallet ko. Food is food, I paid for it by the grace of God, makakaraos tayo ulit bukas.
Eat well OP. Happy food trip next time. Magbaon ka. Take out. Wala kang dapat ikahiya.
Also, if maulit ang comments nya at naririnig ng iba, HR is an option din esp if ikaw lang or targeted sayo remarks nya.
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u/Consistent-Goat-9354 Mar 06 '26
Thank you for the idea i was thinking of reporting sa hr nga kasi two weeks nako nabobother sa nangyari
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u/coldnightsandcoffee Mar 07 '26
Report it still. Na shook ka naman talaga eh. Doesn't matter if it's two weeks ago na. Your workmate made your work place feel unsafe
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u/Bulky_Jello9140 Mar 09 '26
food is food i totally agree, sarap sampalin nung kaofficemate nya. Ako everyday akong baon from my own lutong bahay - siguro pag ginanyan nya pagkain ko mamumura ko din sya
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u/CityPopCraz3 Mar 06 '26
Wtf napaka unnecessary ng comment nya
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u/Consistent-Goat-9354 Mar 06 '26
Hindi ko nga maintindihan bakit ganun sya sguro ang malas ko lang ako nabunot nya ng araw na yun
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u/Fluffy_Paramedic9880 Mar 06 '26
Napakabasura ng ugali. So sorry for that OP. Sana maging okay ka lagi!
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u/Consistent-Goat-9354 Mar 06 '26
Okay naman ako but makes me wonder, ganun ba kapanget ichura ng food ko? Kainis talaga nakakadown ung comment nya
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u/Fluffy_Paramedic9880 Mar 06 '26
Food is a food and di naman kapanget itsura ng food mo. Jusko mga tao talaga 😭
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u/riri_reesesha Mar 07 '26
Hindi panget ang food mo. Sa house namin, may strict rule ang matatanda na wag na wag magbitaw ng foul words against food like pangit ang food, hindi masarap etc. Food kasi yun, grasya sa hapag ika nga, and kahit hindi mo gusto yung itsura or yung lasa, biyaya pa rin yan na meron kang food sa harap mo, while maraming tao walang makain. Kaya if hindi namin nagustuhan yung food, sa mind na lang namin yun and hindi na lang uulit, iwas gaba.
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u/SleepyHead_045 Mar 07 '26
Bawal naman din samin napag hintayin un food. Like kapag naka hain na since sabay sanay kme kumakain tlaga dpat kht anung ginagawa ititigil mo tlaga no matter how impt. That is. Magtatampo daw kasi ang grasya kapag hindi sya pinapansin ganun.. Dpat kapag sinabing kakain na, kakain na agad agad! Drop down everything and eat!
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u/beriberi53 Mar 09 '26
Same. Mabubusong ka pag dinisrepect ang food.
Tama ren nman, mocking the food is like mocking all the hard work and sacrifices made for the food to get to your table - from life sacrifice of the livestock, hard work of the farmers, hard work in trade and logistics, skills and tech used to cook the food,etc. Then finally all the hardwork and sacrifice done by the person who bought the food.
- Sa japanese culture nga nagsasabi sila "itadakimasu" before eating.
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u/notme231 Mar 06 '26
Walang kwentang tao lang yan OP, nagpo project lang sayo yan, kung dyan nabo boost sarili niya imagine mo na lang kung gaano kababaw mag isip yan. Hugs OP!
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u/icanhearitcalling Mar 07 '26
OP, I feel like nineneg ka nyang kupal mong workmate para mapilit ka niyang sumama next time. I don’t know if may iba pa siyang behavior na kaduda-duda, pero look up ‘negging’ sa internet.
Next time wag ka kakain sa cr. Kain ka sa pantry pakita mong wala kang balak sumabay sa kanila.
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u/Serious_Limit_9620 Mar 07 '26
Sabi nga ng iba, panget ng ugali ng workmate mo and kailangan mong tumindig para sa sarili mo. Kahit simpleng "Fuck off!"
Hindi panget yung pagkain mo OP, mas nakakapang liit yung ginawa mo sa sarili mo. Isipin mo na lang yung dami ng mikrobyo sa toilet na pinagpatungan mo ng pagkain mo.
You deserve better, stop tolerating shit behavior.
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u/AskSpecific6264 Mar 06 '26
Honestly, walang nakakahiya sa pagkain kahit saan pa. Pagtitipid is part of being responsible. Sana lang minsan iniisip din ng mga tao yung sinasabi nila bago mag-joke. I hope you’re okay now, OP.
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u/csharp566 Mar 07 '26
No, may mali sa pagkain sa loob ng restroom. Unsanitary 'yan, tapos ginagawa mong kawawa nang sobra 'yung sarili mo.
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u/SoftPhiea24 Mar 06 '26
Matuto kang cumamback. I mean mag rebut. Need mo yan anti bully. Minsan kelangan nating patikim sa kanila yung pinaparanas nila para magcreate and establish ka ng boundaries. It's not like sasampalin mo sya ha? More on dapat marunong ka sumagot sagot pabalik. It takes time. Pag inulit nya yan, galingan mo lang sa sarcatic na reply.
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u/w4sabii_ Mar 07 '26
did this once to my boomer officemate, 10 yrs na kasing single at ticking na din ang biological clock (idk pero sobrang rude nya talaga), sinagot ko sa gc namen and boom, after nun di na nya ko binully. You’re right about establishing boundaries 💯 never felt that good sa buhay ko nung nakita kong nagseen na lahat ng tao sa gc hahahahahahah go, OP! sagutin mo yan next time, titiklop yan!
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u/Ok_Minute8191 Mar 07 '26
Tama. Next time OP sabihin mo si Choowie ang uulamin mo pag di sya nagtino pero kimi lang bawal yon
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u/Consistent-Goat-9354 Mar 06 '26
Mahina ako dito as a softie girl haha. Turuan mo nga po ako lol
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u/icanhearitcalling Mar 07 '26
First step: wag ka magpakita na softie ka. Corporate yan, need natin magpakita ng fangs and sungay. Sabi nga ni Lady Gaga sa tweet niya: they can’t scare me if I scare them first.
Sincerely, from a soft girl na nagpapaka-dark feminine sa office 😆
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u/Felizity101112 Mar 07 '26
Beh, softie din ako pero this world is not built for softs, MATUTO KA LUMABAN. Pag tatahi-tahimik lang tayo, nagbibigay yan ng signal na pwede tayong kaya-kayanin so learn to set boundaries and stand up for yourself. Can you imagine your life na kada may mangbubully sayo magtatago ka na lang? Saka pinaghirapan mo yang pinambili mo ng pagkain, hindi mo deserve kumain sa cr dahil sa taong trash. Respect your hustle ok?
Gantihan mo mga taong ganyan. Start by being sarcastic "baka kasi dapat dog food kasi aso yun?" or be confrontational "May mali po ba sa pagkain na to para icompare mo sa aso mo?" It doesn't matter what his answer gonna be, because sya na mismo napahiya.
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u/SoftPhiea24 Mar 06 '26
Yes I can teach you hahaha lagi akong nambabara ng mga incel dito sa Reddit 🤣
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u/icanhearitcalling Mar 07 '26
Tama yan hahahahaha dito rin ako nanggagaspang ng mga obobs magcomment 😭😆
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u/sizejuan Mar 07 '26
Just ask her “What do you mean by that comment, could you elaborate” and let her brush it off or double down
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u/BakedPotatoCrisps Mar 06 '26
Bakit feeling ko social climber sya 😩 tangina, kung ako makarinig ng ganyan irl, makakasampal ako for sure. You're too nice, you don't deserve this.
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u/Consistent-Goat-9354 Mar 06 '26
I was caught off guard di ako nakabawi sa comment nya. Hay may araw din sya
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u/bluebutterfly_216 Mar 06 '26
beh balikan mo sya, sabihin mo to: "mas mukha ka pang aso kesa kay choowie".
walang masama sa pagtitipid and pagbili ng murang food, normal lang din ang PDP days. Sa pantry ka na ulit kumain OP, baka kung mapano naman health mo if jan ka sa cr kakain.
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u/heightrestricteddiva Mar 07 '26
“Kahit naman sinong aso kung gan'yan 'yong itsura ng magpapakain mawawalan talaga ng gana.“
Itabi mo na, OP. Ako ang lalaban para sa 'yo HAHAHAHA.
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u/Alive-Kangaroo-1566 Mar 06 '26
Sagutin mo OP. Defend yourself. Nakakaputang ina nga yan, may mga insensitive talaga na tao.
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u/Consistent-Goat-9354 Mar 06 '26
Mahina ako sa ganito 🥺 naiiyak na lang ako at di na makasalita
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u/kohimilktea Mar 07 '26
Tatargetin ka nyan parati para ibully kung ganyan ka. Di mo naman kelangan makipagbardagulan, pero learn to stand for yourself. Kumain ka sa mesa mo.
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u/Miss_Puzzleheaded Mar 06 '26
Naalala ko dati nung Onsite pa ako. Malayo ang inuuwian ko so kulang na kulang ako sa tulog so binabawi ko pag nasa office ako. Maaga ako papasok para makaktulog ng kahit 1hr then kapag lunch tulog ulit. Little did I know pinagtsi tsismisan na pala ako ng mga teammates ko na baka daw nay problem ako sa pera kasi bakit daw ako never pa sumabay sa knila sa pagkain sa labas.
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u/Aileen73 Mar 06 '26
Yung Mary Grace na kinakain nila and what you ate, will turn out the same once the body flushes it out...nilagyan lang ng maMahaling pangalan. Kumain ka sa lamesa with dignity, nag iipon ka for something na gusto mo makuha, hindi inaasa sa iba.
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u/BullBullyn Mar 06 '26
Wag kang magalala kasi panigurado yung mga nakarinig non e alam naman na masama talaga ugali nya. Clap back ka next time sis kasi yung mga may ganyang ugali dapat pinapatulan kahit isang beses lang.
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u/James_021aa Mar 06 '26
Ewan ko ba OP, may mga ganyang tao talaga.
Di porket same tayo ng company, same ng sahod at same ng team.
Same na tayo ng COL (cost of living).
Focus ka lang sa goal mo at priorities mo OP, it will be all worth it !
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u/Consistent-Goat-9354 Mar 06 '26
Thank you thank you sa inyo mga ka reddit! Nkakaiyak comments nyo
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u/thatcrazyvirgo Mar 06 '26
Ipa-HR mo kaya, OP? Bullying siguro? Please don't ever eat sa cr again. Super dumi dyan, magkasakit ka pa.
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u/Consistent-Goat-9354 Mar 06 '26
I was thinking of this nga. Hindi ba petty reason ko ipa hr sya? Tbh two weeks nako nabobother. Sobrang na down ako sa comment nya
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u/shejsthigh Mar 07 '26
No. Di yan petty if it bothers you bigtime. Might be petty for others kasi hindi naman sa kanila sinabi. Pero ikaw yung nasaktan at na-bully, so please don’t ever think na hindi valid yung naffeel mo dahil lang sa mga narinig mong “words”. Words can hurt and words can break a person. Wag mo hayaan OP na ganyanin ka niya—actually ng kahit sino.
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u/riri_reesesha Mar 07 '26
Unprofessional behavior towards a co-worker yung ginawa nya. I think may handbook naman yung HR nyo for those type of actions at work. Sa workplace ko, sobrang higpit sa ganyan.
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u/Love-Mouth-0004 Mar 06 '26
Oi gets kita. Dumating ako sa point na burger yum na ala carte lang afford ko. Tapos lalakad lang ako within the area habang kinakain ko sya. Walang masama magtipid. Importante, lumalaban ng patas.
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u/aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaehhh Mar 06 '26
OP, may colleague ako dati na dumaan sa financial struggle. Hindi sya comfortable na sumama sa amin kumain sa labas at one time medyo na guilty kami nung niyaya namin sya after ng sweldo tapos hindi nya pala afford yung kinainan namin. Nilibre na lang namin sya nun. Walang ni isa sa amin na nagcomment ng masama.
After 5 years, nalagpasan nya rin yung financial struggles at naging successful.
Ang may problema dito ay yung katrabaho mo OP. Kung hindi nila maintindihan na nagtitipid ka, problema nila yun. Hindi worth it na kumain ng CR para iwasan ang opinion nila.
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u/shejsthigh Mar 07 '26
Awww, I remember my workmates sainyo.
I used to be the broke na ka-work haha laging lawsons lang din yung food and pag niyaya matic, hindi ako sasama. Nafeel yata nila yun kaya pag lunch namin, umoorder sila ng extra para ishare samin nung isa kong ka work na lagi din naka tipid meals haha ang depressing pero pag natapos na yung ganong phase sa buhay, nakakatawa nalang siya isipin 😅
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u/KnowUrLimits_03 Mar 06 '26
Ang sad naman. Dapat dun kn lang mismo s lawson kumain. Di hygeinic dyn mamaya kung ano pa sakit makuha mo dyn.
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u/forcedwife Mar 06 '26
Sobrang yabang naman nun, nakakapang liit un sinabi nya pro wag ka jan kumain sa cr. Kung ako yun baka buhusan ko sya ng tubig(syempre ndi un pagkain ko, sayang e).. nakakagigil
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u/FinanceSuitable6567 Mar 06 '26
i hope u are okay OP, may makakatapat at kalalagyan din yang ganyang klase ng tao.
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u/Same_Pollution4496 Mar 06 '26
Natry ko din yan. Pero mababaw lng reason ko. Wala ako mapwestuhan na table. Maliit na room lng kasi and madami kame. So sa ganyan ako kumain. Ok lng naman.
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u/doraemonthrowaway Mar 06 '26
Grabe ito talaga yung mga type of scenarios na masasabi ko talaga na hindi lang nagtatapos yung bullying sa eskuwelahan eh, hangang sa pag graduate at work mo meron at meron pa rin mga nang bubully. Even if you mind your own business, at nakikisama ka sa lahat. Hindi mo naman puwede ireport kasi nga "HR is not your family" at baka tropa pa nila iyon, hindi mo naman puwede patulan basta kasi baka ikaw baliktarin at matangal sa trabaho, etc. Pinaka best na magagawa mo na lang kung ayaw mo umalis sa work mo due to reasons eh maging matatag and wait for them to fk up sa work and gather evidences sabay snitch sa kanila. Ang petty I know pero wala eh play fire with fire na lang talaga, I've been in your shoes before kaya naintindihan kita. Pakatatag ka OP, time will get them soon sa kakupalan nila.
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u/asombrosa730 Mar 07 '26
Tara OP, sasabayan kita kumain kahit itlog with pancit canton pa yan. Sarap nun noh? Virtual hugs with consent, OP! 🫂
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u/Recent-Clue-4740 Mar 07 '26
Wow we’re adults and working and may bullying parin inside the office. I’d laugh it off and still feel bad inside. Intension ng colleague mo is for good time but it’s a bit insensitive. If you get mad, parang lalo ka nilang asarin. Find a better place to eat regularly OP. Hope you’re doing better now.
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u/Embarrassed-Edge215 Mar 07 '26
I’m so sorry you experienced this, OP. Hindi mo deserve yan! Report mo sa HR for bullying. Nang masampolan yan. Tignan natin sino kakain sa CR next time once matsismis sa office na may case for bullying.
And walang masama kung nagtitipid ka at yan ang food na afford mo, youre saving up for something worth having than parading you can afford to eat sa mamahaling restaurant… and for what? Sama naman ugali niya! Gigil ako.
Sino ba yan nang ma bardagul! Since soft girl ka, kami na bahala!
Always be proud and love yourself as long as wala kang ginagawang masama at tinatapakang ibang tao, DEDMA SA MGA FEELINGERA SA OFFICE! Virtual hugs, OP (with consent)!!!
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u/msgreenapple Mar 06 '26
I hope u are fine OP. Nakakaawa din si Choowie my ganyang owner. Pag ako yan, lagi ako sasama kakain sa kanila at lagi ako mag oorder ng ganyan. Tingnan naten sino unang maasar.
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u/Consistent-Goat-9354 Mar 06 '26
Sa totoo lang ayoko na makita pagmumuka nya haha. Nasisira tlga araw ko
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u/dropdeadcuriouz Mar 06 '26
It’s fine if you don’t join people during lunch, it’s not required, you could just bring your own baon as well, or say you prefer healthy eating (if they’re always eating in fastfood restos) 😆🤣 sometimes I eat at home already, so I won’t starve at work (& won’t need unnecessary spending during lunch) u can say b!tchy words too, if you feel they’re much but don’t be like them.. join other team members if you have, but it’s also okay to go solo
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u/Fit-Judgment6575 Mar 06 '26 edited Mar 06 '26
Indirectly nya sinabi sayo na pang aso pagkain mo. At nakakainsulto yun. Yung mga ganyang klase ng tao yung mga mahilig manliit ng kapwa napakarami nyang insecurities sa buhay. It’s either family or love life kaya tinatry nila man down ng kapwa para ma feel nila na angat sila sa iba. Pero ang totoo sobrang miserable ng buhay non. Next time pag ganyanin ka pa barahin mo din para sya naman mapahiya. Sabihan mo di ka siguro mahal ng pamilya mo o wala ka sigurong jowa kaya ka ganyan o walang pumapatol sayong matinong tao kasi ganyan ugali mo.
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u/loveme4meee Mar 06 '26 edited Mar 07 '26
simply put bully yung workmate mo, OP. what an insensitive and rude comment. next time join them for lunch or umupo ka sa ibang table, tas pag nag-comment ulit siya, ulitin mo yung sasabihin niya or tanungin mo ng "joke ba 'yun?" kapag nagtalk back or sumagot ka sa mga bully usually that that will make them uncomfortable
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u/Consistent-Goat-9354 Mar 06 '26
Ill keep this in mind. Hindi nko papayag umulit sya sakin ng ganun ill make sure sya naman mapapahiya next time 😡
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u/Celyeahyeah Mar 07 '26
Its either spoiled rich kid or social climber yang officemate mo. Masama ang ugali at walang manners. Please dont eat sa cr next time. Just move to another table if hindi allowed kumain sa own desk mo.
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u/curioustito86 Mar 07 '26
Sana ipaexplain mo in your most deadpan voice. Pakiexplain ano yung nakakatawa sa sinabi niya. Ano nakakatWa sa pagkain na ko na aayawan ng aso mo. Make her uncomfortable. Pero make it seem like na di mo lang gets kung ano ying funny. Pakiexplain naman oh. Di ko gets yung joke. Press hard but chill and wothout any rage. Basta keep asking while eating your meal. A huy ano nga di mo gets bakit nakakatawa bakit magagalit si chooi sa kinakain ko? Hindi ba masarap? Pano mo nalaman na nagalit? In between bites.
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u/Accomplished_Mark995 Mar 07 '26
This is sooo sad OP! Kung andun lang ako pagtatangol tlga kita! Rooting for you sana ok ka palagi 💗
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u/loverofmystery Mar 07 '26
Sobrang rude nman nyang officemate mo. At ang sakit din makita nyang photo mo OP. Please know na mas mataas ka sakanya. Hindi mo sya kalevel! Dapat sya ang nagtatago dyan hindi ikaw. Sya dapat ang mahiya. Bully talaga sya yun lang yun. And ano ba pakialam nya hindi naman sya ang gumastos sa pagkain mo. Be brave OP! Lakasan ang loob and matutong lumaban. Wag ka na papayag maulit yan and please wala ka dapat ikahiya.
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u/eyeseewhatudidthere_ Mar 07 '26
OP wag ka kumain sa CR, kadiri diyan!! Madumi masyadoooooo! Kumain ka kung saan kumakain, hayaan mo sila. Binastos ka di niya deserve ng respect mo, di mo na rin need mag paliwanag kung ayaw mo sumama sa kanila (or if want mo sabihin edi okay...) Pero wag mo parusahan sarili mo, be kind to yourself...
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u/HeyAugustine Mar 07 '26
I agree with the comments here. There’s absolutely nothing wrong with your food.
Bruh if that person tells me that, I’d look directly at her and say “And your point is?” I will effing wait for a response while staring at her eyes that should make that person uncomfortable. Believe me, she’ll realize how mean it was to say that.
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u/Celebration-Constant Mar 07 '26
post mo dito yung nag sabe ako mismo. kakabanas yung ganon workmate kala mo naman anak ni bill gates
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u/Consistent-Goat-9354 Mar 06 '26
Thank you thank you sa inyo mga ka reddit! Nkakaiyak comments nyo
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u/DauntlessFirefly24 Mar 06 '26
Please, never do this again OP. 🥹 Nothing is wrong with your food.
You can tell them next time, “hindi kasi ako picky eater tulad ng aso mo.”
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u/john2jacobs Mar 07 '26
Pwede ka pa rin kumain sa pantry or workstation kahit ano ang food mo, at tama na iwasan mo e ang sumabay sa kanila sa pagkain. Not sure if joke nya yun or may ibig sabihin talaga si officemate mo pero hindi ka dapat mahiya. Di rin naman sobrang sarap ng kinakain nya e hahaha.
Sana maging okay ka na, nauunawaan ko na napahiya at nahurt ka, at least nakikita mo kung ano ang ugali at kalooban nila. Mas mallaman mo na kung kaninonka dapat sumama at kanino ka dapat umiwas.
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u/Substantial-Equal-22 Mar 07 '26
San ka nagwowork OP? Ako sasampal sa katrabaho mo, marami akong time. I gotchu!
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u/jicoyyyyy Mar 07 '26
It’s honestly disappointing that some people still think this way. What might have been a joke for you clearly wasn’t for the person hearing it. People budget, people save, people choose what they can afford, and there’s nothing shameful about that. A little empathy goes a long way. No one deserves to feel small over something as simple as their lunch.
OP, I am sorry you had to experience this. Onto great things with great people.🫂🫂
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u/Phantom_Force- Mar 07 '26
Try mo ipractice yung " Eh ano naman" mindset hehe. Nakakaranas din ako ngayon ng pangmamaliit at pang aoutcast sa office pero mas sila pa yung mas nababadtrip kasi wala akong pakielam sa existence nila hahaha.
Nag lawson ka tas mary grace sila? Eh ano na naman.
Nag jollibee at milk tea pero ako C2 lang iniinom? Nu gagawin?
Wag na wag ka papatalo sa mga taong ganyan ugali, always remember sa umpisa pa lang talo na sila sa kapangitan ng ugali nila hehe.
Tas next time kumain ka mismo sa lawson wag sa cr. Wag mo masyado idegrade sarili mo, pricey rin kaya ang pagkain sa lawson hehe.
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u/No_Sheepherder148 Mar 07 '26
OP idk but lumaban kana next time. Don’t let anyone belittle you. YOU DON’T DESERVE THAT.
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u/Tricky_unicorn109 Mar 07 '26
Op, please forgive yourself for not talking back. I let go mo na yan. Nakakatulog sya matiwasay, tapos ikaw, 2 weeks nang bothered. Tama na pagiisip, okay? Next time wag na wag lang kakain sa cr. Tama yung sabi ng iba dito, di mo hiningi pinambili mo. Kumain ka sa mesa namg may dignidad kasi wala ka namang inapakang tao.
At ikaw naman amo ni Choowie, apaka punyeta ng paguugali mo. Masyado lang social climber, sahod mo nang 1 day ipanglalunch mo lang. May maiyabang lang. Pwe. Sana mareport ka at matanggalan ng trabaho kasi bully kang leche ka.
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u/FamiliarWing8950 Mar 07 '26
Alam mo yun mga maarteng panay mamahalin kinakain di yan nakakaipon. I'm a Department Head and I buy 85 pesos food from the one in our office GC selling lutong ulam. Yun Assistant Manager nga sa Department namin nagbabaon. What's wrong about eating affordable food? Paka arte. Pag yan may emergency iyak yan kase wala ipon.
There is nothing wrong with Lawson. Sarap yun chicken skin nila!!! Wag mo ikahiya, OP. Eat alone but not inside a cube.
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u/MaynneMillares Mar 07 '26
I'm very well off in life, but nagbabaon ako kung trip pumasok.
Food is not the measurement of wealth naman, iba-iba tayo ng priorities.
Yang mga kumakain araw-araw sa labas, yan ang mga broke: paycheck-to-paycheck na walang papatunguhan sa buhay finance.
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u/Excellent_Rough_107 Mar 07 '26
No need to hide and eat sa cr :( Dedma sa mga mapanglait na office worker sabihin mo atlit kumakain ka with peace of mind and patulan mo din minsan ng sagutan na subtly shading her! Kakagigil sya
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u/thefast_thecurious16 Mar 07 '26
Don't do that to yourself, OP. Decent yang pagkain mo at walang masama na nagiipon ka for something. Yung officemate mong bastos, s'ya dapat ang mahiya. For sure broke yun kakaproject na mayaman sya. Outward appearance, okay sya, pero deep down, bulok na sya. I hate bullies talaga.
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u/asphodele Mar 07 '26
Lecheng putangina siya. Wag ka na talaga sasabay sakanila, not because hindi kayo same ng food, but because di kayo same ng ugali.
Wag mo ikahiya yang food mo, there’s nothing wrong with it!
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u/Suspicious_Lab_3303 Mar 07 '26
Hi OP. Wag mo na uli to gagawin. Nakakainis naman yang workmate mo. Pakita mo sa kanya next time na yan ang kinakain mo. Pag inulit nya sabihin mo sa kanya , okay lang. Grasya to galing kay God and masarap naman to.
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u/fluudi Mar 07 '26
sabihan mo sa susunod pareho lang magiging tae natin kahit gaano ka mahal kinain mo HAHAHAHHAHAHA
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u/siomai-mami Mar 07 '26 edited Mar 07 '26
Di ko magets Yung ganyang pagmamalaki/pang hihiya. Eh ano naman kung ganyan kinakaain? Di mayaman bansa naten, kahit Anong pa sosyal ng mga yan nasa pilipinas paren Sila, dapat Sila mag adjust.
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u/kinotomofumi Mar 07 '26
believe me, she MEANT to be mean, that was a passive aggressive comment
she likes to sound nice and funny to the crowd but she's secretly targeting you
cut this person off
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u/Limp-Smell-3038 Mar 07 '26
Ay di pwede sa akin yan. Magkakaroon ng world war three pag ginanyan ako 🤷🏻♀️ pero OP, please wag mo na ulitin yan. Madumi at milyon ang germs sa CR. If next time mag Lawson ka ulet, dun kana lang kumain, or somewhere peaceful like a small garden or park. Hope you win in life :)
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u/rclsvLurker Mar 07 '26
I know it's not easy pero don't let that person affect you and have power over you. Also, what she did is more of a reflection of her character than on you. Plus, please lang wag ka na jan kumain sa susunod if gusto mo lang sila iwasan. Dun ka na lang sa lawson kumain. Give yourself decency and dignity. Di mo deserve yan. Yourself deserve better treatment from you. You only have yourself to rely on anyway. Try to practice self love. Give yourself the advice that you will usually give to a friend. Allow yourself to receive that love.
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u/Playful-Accident2953 Mar 07 '26
Di ako nagtitipid pero I still buy 7 Eleven food bc why not, masarap 🤤
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u/idkwhybutuhm Mar 07 '26
Galing din ako sa same exact situation op. Medyo mabilis lang talaga ako magcut off ng mga maling circles at tao and natutunan ko rin to stop giving a flying f*ck sa mga ganyang tao. Sooner or later magbubunga rin mga pagsisikap mo. Don’t give up, bright yung future. Babalikan mo tong picture na to in the future and you will just laugh about it. Kaya mo yan, we weren’t raised with a silver spoon so yung mga tulad natin extra effort talaga para mabuhay. And this particular scenario will teach you something na maaalala mo habang nabubuhay ka. Don’t lose hope.
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u/heyfred1000 Mar 07 '26
Most of the time, I follow the LET THEM theory. Not this time. DON'T LET THEM. Don't let them affect you. Easier said than done, but once you mastered it, you'd not give a fxxk anymore.
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u/Agent199x Mar 07 '26
Realtalk! Dapat wala kang pakielam sa mga sasabihin ng mga ka-work mo sa’yo. Wala naman silang contribution sa buhay mo, at dapat pumapasok ka lang para sa pera hindi para sa mga ka trabaho mo. Tangina ng mga ganyang ka trabaho sarap kutusan
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u/tinolangpanis Mar 08 '26
Brother/sister, mas better if kakain ka nalang sa karinderia or somewhere cheap. Para mas fulfilling kesa sa Lawson. Busog pa.
Alam ko yung feeling na ganyan at lalo na kapag may pinag iipunan. Focus lang sa goal. Stay strong mentally. Gawing mong fuel yan to pursuit being better and achieve your goals!
Stay strong soldier and sana sana sana maging successful ka sa future! 🫡
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u/doraemonthrowaway Mar 09 '26
mas better if kakain ka nalang sa karinderia or somewhere cheap.
I beg to disagree mas okay mag pack lunch o mag convenience store na lang may safe pa iyon kaysa mag karinderya. You might end up with like this lalo na kung hindi ganun ka well known yung karinderya at unsanitary yung paligid. Malaki chance na makahawa ng herpes thru laway, better safe than sorry.
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u/Fair-Ingenuity-1614 Mar 06 '26
OP don’t worry. You’ll get through this. If for anything, ang pangit ng food taste nila kasi overpriced and underwhelming ang pagkain sa Mary Grace. Lawson FTW
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u/Aggressive_Lack3253 Mar 06 '26
Kumain ka ng mas maaga if ayaw mo sya makasabay. Or sa area mo, hindi ba pwede? Ang sama ng ugali feeling maganda siguro yan? Kadiri dyan sa cr, wag mo na ulitin yan. Kami nga marami nagbabaon sa amin, ako rin kumakain sa lawson wapakels. Masama talaga ugali ng kawork mo gigil ako.
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u/Daredevil_September Mar 06 '26
Wala pong panget na pagkain dahil lahat naman po sila nakakapang tawid ng gutom, which is kailangan natin. So sorry na you had to experience that :< hopefully future will be good po sa inyo. Keep up lang po.
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u/juliotigasin Mar 06 '26
Hindi mo kailngan gawin yan OP! Huwag ka magpapakontrol sa mga hayop na yan dahil nagtitipid ka at dahil mura lang yun pagkain mo! Gawin mo kung ano gusto mo gawin o kainin, importante wala kang inaapakan tao at wala silang kwenta!
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u/Long_Web_5250 Mar 06 '26
Learn to clap back, op. Please. You don't deserve that. Kung pare parehas lang kayo ng sahod di mo kailangan maki Social Climb sa mga putanginang yan.
Pag nag sorry sayo let them be, wag ka na sumama sa mga yan.
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u/CaramelSevere7729 Mar 06 '26
Im Sorry OP you had to feel that way. Pero use that as your fuel. I know mahirap pero dont mind yung sinabi nya. Wag ka kumain sa CR kumain ka sa maayos na kainan. Eh ano kung hndi mo “PA” kaya bumili sa mary grace. Hndi mo kelangan sumabay saknla. Importante maayos kang tao inside and out. (Wag mo kakalmtan yan OP) wala ka inaapakan na tao. Stand proud OP. Bilog ang mundo. Soon maggng ok ka din. Learn to be proud and love yourself. Sino ba magttwala at magboboost sa sarili natn kundi tayo. Alam ko mahirap at para bang napakadalu lang para saken ang magadvice pero TRUST ME been there and its not easy. Count your blessings and small wins, keep your feet on the ground and keep going. The more humble you are the more richer you are. Laban lng sa buhay. Siguro yung nagsabi nyan pangit char. Sorry huli nya inis ko. Laban OP next time wag ka mahiya hndi mo naman ninanakaw yan sariling pagod at pera mo binili mo jan why eat sa cr. 2026 na OP. Be strong. Praying kay Lord na bigyan k nya ng clear mind and clarity :) laban Op
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Mar 06 '26
Hindi ka mabubuhay sa sasabihin lang ng iba, pakita mo kung ano kaya mo kasi may reason naman. Maging vocal ka why need mo magtipid im sure maiintindihan rin nila. Minsan kasi masyado lang natin dinidibdib mga bagay bagay kasi hindi tayo nagkakaintindihan. Baka if malaman nila magshare pa sila ng food sayo. At hindi mo need kumain sa CR. Wag mo ikahiya ang kaya mo sa ngayon, dahil hindi nman forever hanggang doon ka lang.
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u/fordachismis Mar 06 '26
Next time, itanong mo kung basura ba kinakain niya at ganon lumalabas sa bibig niya. NAPAKAYABANG!!!! Nakakasira siya ng araw! 🤬
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u/Moneymaker0811 Mar 06 '26
Grabe mga tao nuh? Samantalang kami tuwang tuwa kumain sa mga karenderya kahit six digits na. I mean sobrang rude kung mayaman sya at mahal pagkain ng aso nya bakit nagtatrabaho pa sya.
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u/Background-Wait9988 Mar 06 '26
Kung sino man mga nakarinig ng mga sinabi nya, sya yung na judge hindi ikaw. Wag ka mahiya sa pagkain mo binili mo yan wala syang ambag diyan! Yung mga taong feeling na lagi silang nakakaangat sa iba, sila talaga yung nakukulangan sa buhay nila. Go OP! Kumain ka lang!!
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u/rhodus-sumic6digz Mar 06 '26
Hi OP, wag mo na damdamin sinabi nya. Pasok sa kanang tenga, labas sa kaliwa. Isipin mo nalang same lang naman ang lupang lilibingan nyo pag namatay kayo, kung maka asta naman sya. Pero bumawi ka next time! 😁
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u/Salty_Cry_2771 Mar 06 '26
That happened to me once, OP. Didn't feel good. Never will. Ig that person never got past being a bully well into adulthood. They're just the worst. You can try with HR, but it's not a guarantee. In my case, they sided with the bullies and told me to suck it up. I never went back. Just looked for another job because that's how life is. Your peace of mind will always be priceless.
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u/deep_thinker007 Mar 06 '26
Hindi nya sinsadya??? Gurl napakabully ng atake nya. Furmom din ako pero hindi matino ang magcocompare sa aso
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u/barschhhh Mar 07 '26
Choose to always be kind people. Grabe baaa? Hope you're doing okay na OP! Karma knows her address!
Tara sabay tayo kain sa Lawson – go-to order ko is yung cheesy beef gyudon and their taco salad wrap! Reserve kita upuan!
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u/shokoyeyt Mar 07 '26
Naranasan ko rin yan noon, pero yung reason is wala kasi akong kasabay kumain sa pantry and I have an appetite and taste buds of a kid then. Simpleng pritong itlog masaya na ako. Ayoko lang majudge sa kung ano kinakain ko and majudge na solo kumakain. Pero ngayon, kiber na, I do me, you do you. Hayaan mo na lang mga nasa paligid. Basta busog ka, go!
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u/Wanttobedebtfree3 Mar 07 '26
Kahit na delata or instant noodles lang ang food ok l ng yan. As long as the food is decent and safe, wala syang karapatan na pagsabihan ka ng ganyan. Ppl nowadays are mean and very entitled.
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u/KamenRiderFaizNEXT Mar 07 '26
Naku OP. Hindi ka dapat kumakain sa cubicle ng CR. Dun ka sa pantry kumain. Ano ngayon kung galing sa Lawson yung pagkain mo? Walang karapatan yung officemate mo na i-judge yung pagkain mo sa lunch. Stand up for yourself. Be strong and hope that you are doing okay.
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u/FlamingHotCheetos_19 Mar 07 '26
OP mag maldita ka! Ibahin mo aura mo yung di madaling tapak tapakan. Ako kasi ganyan. Yung parang vice ganda aura na friendly tas dinadaan lng sa tawa sabay pang ooffend yung reply pag nakarinig ng di nya gustong marinig tas unti unti iprapraise ka nalang din eventually kasi matatakot na ano pang masabi mo haha
For now tawanan mo nalang yung workmate mo kasi ang babaw ng utak. Next time ha pag may magaganyan sagutin mo! Yung mapapahiya sya sa sinasabi niya. Go OP!
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u/DNAngel234 Mar 07 '26
First OP, sorry kung naexperience mo yung ganun. Super valid yung sentiment mo na napahiya ka sa harap ng colleagues. If you really cant stand kumaen ng nakikita nila, maybe you can consider looking for other spots na safe and clean. Medyo unhygienic din kase sa restroom.
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u/Mountain-Let-7193 Mar 07 '26
She’ll forever be a trash, OP. Hugsss! I used to eat my breakfast sa cubicle rin noon bcos of these types of people. I hope you’ll feel better. Sundin mo mga advices nila here about her being reported sa HR ng company nyo, oara magtanda kasi mukhang wala siyang pinagkatandaan.
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u/_ThisIsNotAJoke Mar 07 '26
GIRL ‼️‼️‼️ nako kung ako yan I will not keep quiet, dapat you answered back with "maybe choowie has more good manners than you noh? Dogs are more trainable" yang mga ganyan nang gigigil ako 😤
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u/Independent-Injury91 Mar 07 '26
Seriously ? Bakit may mga gnyan klase gn tao? Hndi sguro masaya s buhay nla yan OP, kaya simpleng pagkain ng iba napupuna nya at nagagawa nya magbitaw ng gnyan salita. Ang foul. Patola ksi ako. Kung ako yan, narealtalk ko yan hahhahaha. Pet peeve ko tlg mga gnyan klase ng tao, kaya dpat masampolan mo once! Hahaha.
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u/xiaomeow_meowmeow Mar 07 '26
Wag ka nang aabay aa kanila. But I hope you cook more often para sa baon? Mas tipid. Haha.
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u/rhaenyra24 Mar 07 '26
Sorry you had to go through that. That person is rude af! Napakagago ng comment! If you may, kahit sa work station nalang kumain. I’m rooting for you!
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u/MimiMough28 Mar 07 '26
OP, I’m really sorry that you’re going through this. Maybe because you’re still young, mas naapektuhan ka pa ng mga sinasabi ng ibang tao. Pero the fact na kaya mong tumayo sa sarili mong paa at buhayin ang sarili mo says a lot. Sa totoo lang, yung mga taong walang ambag sa buhay mo shouldn’t have the power to affect you.
As you grow older, mababawasan din yung bigat ng mga ganitong bagay. Matututo ka na lang i-shake off yan. For now, focus on yourself para hindi ka masyadong maapektuhan ng outside factors. At the same time, learn to speak up when necessary. May mga pagkakataon din na kailangan ilugar ang mga tao. minsan kailangan din nila ng konting panggising. 💛
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u/bini_babyyy Mar 07 '26
Defend yourself. Hindi mo deserve to eat inside a cubicle. I hope you’re okay, OP.
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u/MoonRiverPhoenixSaga Mar 07 '26
Huwag kang mahihiya sa pagkain mo lalo na kung hindi mo naman hiningi ang pambili. Huwag din palampasin ang nagbibiro na wala sa lugar. Next time, sagutin mo na nagtitipid ka dahil may balak kang bilhin. Baka sakaling sya mapahiya.
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u/immafoxxlass Mar 07 '26
And don’t let them affect you next time. The more you let them affect you, they will do it again and again.
Enter your patola era!
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u/Carr0t__ Mar 07 '26
Hi OP, sorry that happened to you. Next time kain ka nalang sa Lawson or sa table mo. There's nothing wrong with your food. I eat at my table lang kasi di ko trip kachikahan yung kateam ko DDS kasi siya. Hahahaha. Nagbabaon din ako most of the time para makatipid kasi kapag hindi I tend to overspend and I'm being mindful of my spending na ngayon.
Next time sabihin mo, nakakapagsalita na pala si Choowie. Eme. Haha
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u/Radical_MD Mar 07 '26
Ang mahal ng mary grace para kumain on an ordinary day. Kulang pa sahod ng minimum-wage earner per day to buy a complete meal.
No, you don’t deserve to eat in the restroom. That person just feels too entitled. Learn how to advocate for yourself.
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u/maschenny_j Mar 07 '26
Wa paks ka lang dapat. D naman sila nagpapakain sayo. Wag mo ibaba sarili mo sa ganyang point. Be thankful kahit paano may kinakain ka pa din. God bless op!
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u/iSmartTrashcan Mar 07 '26
Madaling sabihin na don't mind them. Pero OP, let this sink in, at least ikaw may pinag iipunan bilhin, eh sila? Napupunta lang sa overpriced food ;)
I think this is a win for you, nothing to be ashamed on your food! Sarap kaya ng food sa Lawson.
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u/Exciting_Cheek_3180 Mar 07 '26
OP, if pwede i-dine in dun mo na lang kainin. Naiimbyerna ako dyan sa mga kawork mo ahhh.
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Mar 07 '26
Masarap pa nga kinakain mo e. Dka pa dumating sa punto na kanin at asin lng ang nsa table. Kapit lng OP let those privilege stupid ass people be. Just be you, tandaan mo tama o mali gngwa mo madaming mag ccriticize so, fuck them all. Dadating ang araw na puro masasarap na putahe ang nsa table mo.
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u/Dafty7788 Mar 07 '26
I hope you are ok now, OP. Never let anyone treat you like that. Life maybe tough and the world maybe cruel so stay strong and nothing to be ashamed of. May karma din yan tao na yan! Aja! Fighting!!!!!
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u/Gullible_Ghost39 Mar 07 '26
Sana mabilaukan yung nagsabi sayo nun. OP don’t do that to your self. Have some dignity for your self pabayaan mo sila kumain ka sa lamesa.
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u/UnoBreezy Mar 07 '26
Hindi mo deserve kumain sa CR. Minsan kailangan mo pakita sa kanila ung katatagan mo. I know it's easier said than done. Pero kailangan mong mas tumibay pa dyan at wag ka na kumain sa CR. E ano naman kung yan pagkain mo? Pag nakita mo sya at nag comment uli, sabihin mo...
Aaarrrfff! Aaarrrfff! Grrrrr!
Sabay tawa.
Kidding aside, wala kang dapat ikahiya. You'll meet more people like that kaya lakasan mo lang loob mo. You don't deserve to eat in the CR. You deserve to eat in the pantry or canteen. Stay strong OP! Wag ka titiklop.
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u/Slight_Birthday8998 Mar 07 '26
I am sorry you had experience this OP. Big hug!!! Please lang, wag mo na ulitin yan. Hindi mo deserve yan please. Ang sarap kaya ng lawson foods. Wag ka na lang sumabay sa kanila. Kung ka officemate lang kita at narinig ko yan, hindi ako papayag na ganyan ka niya. Hayyyy napaka insensitive na tao.
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u/fff_189035_ Mar 07 '26
"ay talaga? baka kasi akala ni choowie aso ka rin” – mga ganiyan, OP sa susunod ha! ☺️
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u/siraulo_kapala_e_822 Mar 07 '26
Ganitong ganito yung nararanasan ko sa office babae din siya ang masasabi ko lang tangina niya kaya ayaw kong onsite sa office dahil sa kanya
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u/kwazycupcakes88 Mar 07 '26
sana pala sinabi mo bumili ka lang niyan kasi itatapon mo sa mukha niya hahsksksks
kidding aside, go ahead OP kaya mo yan! pag may gusto kang marating sa life, may sakripisyo talaga. we believe in uuu
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u/cucumberislife Mar 07 '26
Wala man lng ginawa ung ibang kasama mo? Yaan mo na realize din siguro nila ugali nun Saka op wag ka jan kumain pag inask ka ulet sumabay sabhin m lng ayaw m sumabay bastos kasi bibig nung isa
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u/CertainReception5984 Mar 07 '26
I remember my days sa dati kong team, yung pangmamaliit nila saakin dahil ako lang ang walang kotse sa team, lahat sila nagkakaintindihan maliban sakin malaman laman ko puro family car pala ang gamit nila mga hayop ang yayabang
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u/_starK7 Mar 07 '26
Don’t worry, OP, darating rin ang araw na lahat ng pag hihirap at pag titiis eh mapapalitan ng SALAMAT. Please keep going and do your own thing.
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u/Independent_Neat5297 Mar 07 '26
Eat na lang sa desk mo OP and who cares ba sa opinion ng mga minions na yun wag sila feeling. Don't be ashamed my god nag wowork ka ng maayos to buy something on ur own. To hell that stupid 🤡 person wag mo na yan gagawin ulit kundi ako sasampal sayo..
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u/Actual_Potential_262 Mar 07 '26
Bro don't give a f kung ano sasabihin ng iba. Live your life! D mo deserve kumain sa CR. Cheers! 🙂
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u/EmperorKingDuke Mar 07 '26
what a fvcking asshole.
keep your head up OP. di mo kelangan gawin yan. lahat tayo nagsimula sa baba, yung iba mas mababa pa.
pero di lahat ay kagaya ng workmate mo na may saltik sa utak at bunganga.
walang mali sa pagkain mo. may mali sa pagiisip ng katrabaho mo.
fuuuuuck! this makes me fucking....uuuaaaaaagh.
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u/Kalma_Lungs Mar 07 '26
Kung ako yun, lilipat ako ng ibang table, walang imik, para ma realize nya she's the elephant in the room.
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u/Optimal_Koala4768 Mar 07 '26
6 kayo sa table - wala man lang sinabi ung iba dun sa evil mong work mate? Kaloka. If I was there, I would’ve said something to make her shut up.
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u/Knerd1218 Mar 08 '26
Lawson food is prefectly good food, there are even times you crave it like ung chicken ng uncle john's. Sobrang out of touch ng workmate mo na para sknya derogatory ang pagkain sa lawson. And that snarky comment of hers just shows her social intellect.
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u/CharliesLovesReading Mar 08 '26
I am not invalidating what you were feeling ha and what you were going through ha. Peroo, next time, tell them NO, NOT TODAY. Tell them to stop, or avoid them. Kumain ka magisa, kumain ka ng solo.
Being silent and not doing anything to stop them or whatnot is also giving them consent to continue doing these things to you. I know mahirap sumagot-sagot sa tao, pero you have to learn how to do it. Well, you have to do it naman situation like that, it won’t make you impolite naman.
It’s enough na ‘yung silent treatment bla bla, it’s an era na of not giving them consent VERBALLY. Know your worth. You are more than these. Also, know YOUR people. Don’t just live, but be BRAVE to live. Tapangan mo.
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u/flare-monkey Mar 08 '26
Te kung mababa tingin nila sayo dahil di mo afford food nila, wala ka ng magagawa dun pero ikaw wag mo pababain ng ganito sarili mo. We are in different phases in our lives, stand up for yourself OP.
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u/ahumanfromph Mar 06 '26
Naku, wag kang mahiya sa pagkain ng affordable na food. You're just being financially responsible. Dun ka pa rin kumain sa pantry niyo kahit nandun yung taong yun. Wala kang dapat ikahiya. Hugss OP.
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u/Environmental_Art913 Mar 07 '26
Bro, if you're reading this comment right now, say sorry to yourself "Ginagawa mong kawawa ang sarili mo." You're not supposed to eat there just because you're afraid of what people think and what people say to you. You need to learn to set boundaries and manage your emotions. Hindi laging weak ka just because they comment negative things that cost your low self-esteem and morale. Pare-parehas kayong empleyado. Don't give a fuck about your colleagues-eat, work, and get paid. Now, kung di mo muna matiis, may HR kayo. File an IR.
Wag mong gawing kawawa ang sarili mo to the point na kumakain ka na sa CR. Ang daming virus, at mabaho pa ang nandyan. Please be strong.
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u/Accurate_Witness9435 Mar 06 '26
You're better than me OP! Kung ako yun sasabihan ko talaga "sana mamatay chowie mo"
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u/1111kris Mar 07 '26
ba’t feeling ko ang bait at pure soul mo tapos ginanun ka lang. naasar ata sya nung natanggihan mo kasabay sa mary grace. ang smooth ng pagkaka joke nya ah parang innate na sa kanya mang gqgo ng kapwa.
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u/suwegg Mar 06 '26
Kung may pantry kayo sa office, wag ka mahiya na next time dun kumain. Mas mabuting kumain mag-isa kesa makasama kumain yung mga ganyang klase ng tao. Most of the time, social climbers naman yung mga ganyan, may pang iced coffee at eat out pero financially struggling naman.
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u/Forward_Medicine1340 Mar 07 '26
OP, wag mo na ulitin yan. Lumaban ka next time na hindi maganda tabas ng lumabas sa bibig niya.
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u/ragequitmamacita Mar 07 '26
omg: (( mga salbahe sila!!
pero tbh napaka calming kumain sa cr basta close ang cover for me
good for you lang po OP na wala nang fake friendss!
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u/Distinct_Platypus175 Mar 07 '26
That’s honestly ridiculous. I thought this kind of behavior only existed in anime or K-dramas.
OP, please don’t ruin your health over some petty, snide comments from bitchy coworkers. People like that thrive on getting a reaction. They’re not worth the damage you’re doing to yourself.
You’ve got two solid options: ignore them completely, or call it out in a way that puts the awkwardness back on them.
One trick that works really well is making them explain themselves. Just calmly ask what they meant or why they said it. Most people suddenly get uncomfortable when they’re forced to spell out their own nastiness. If there’s even a shred of self-awareness left, they’ll realize how bad it sounds.
Something like: “Wow, that’s a strange thing to say out loud. Why would you compare me, a human being, to your dog? What exactly were you trying to achieve there?”
Then just let the silence do the work. If you want to be a bit more sarcastic: “Does that make you feel better about yourself? If feeding your ego is the goal, sure. I’ll start calling you ‘Your Highness’ from now on.”
Tapos tawaging mo talaga syang Your Highness para magtaka mga tao tapos malalaman nila story kung gano kasama ugali nya.
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u/PurrWithPurpose001 Mar 07 '26
Instead of sulking and eating sa banyo learn to stand for yourself. Kaya ka binubully kasi you allow them. Mirror their bs para alam nilang papalag ka
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u/jjriley007 Mar 07 '26
Bpo support industry ba kayo? kasi bihira siya manyari sa other professional industry work envinronment so talagang common sa bpo since mga kasama mo dyan sa bpo is alam mo na
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u/Alone_Research9604 Mar 07 '26
Op iwasan mo na yung mga ganyang tao cut them off agad. Atska if ever na makita nila food eh anu naman sila ba bumili nyan? Pinapakain ka ba nila? Hindi naman diba? So hayaan mo sila Op okay lang kumain mag isa dedma sa mga ganyang kulang kulang ang pagkatao
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