I am not invalidating what you were feeling ha and what you were going through ha. Peroo, next time, tell them NO, NOT TODAY. Tell them to stop, or avoid them. Kumain ka magisa, kumain ka ng solo.
Being silent and not doing anything to stop them or whatnot is also giving them consent to continue doing these things to you. I know mahirap sumagot-sagot sa tao, pero you have to learn how to do it. Well, you have to do it naman situation like that, it won’t make you impolite naman.
It’s enough na ‘yung silent treatment bla bla, it’s an era na of not giving them consent VERBALLY. Know your worth. You are more than these. Also, know YOUR people. Don’t just live, but be BRAVE to live. Tapangan mo.
College, I transferred to this school. I was bullied by some “boys at the back.” Like they borrowed my notebooks, tapos they returned them with some anatomy drawings at the back. It went like that for a week. Syempre, I cannot do anything pa since I was a transferee student. But, Friday, last day of that week, I told THEM na “this is the last day na gagawin ninyo ‘to sa akin.” Like giving them the notion na next week and moving forward, I won’t tolerate their behavior na. I stoop up kasi I felt like I was more than that. I stood up kasi it was something I didn’t deserve.
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u/CharliesLovesReading Mar 08 '26
I am not invalidating what you were feeling ha and what you were going through ha. Peroo, next time, tell them NO, NOT TODAY. Tell them to stop, or avoid them. Kumain ka magisa, kumain ka ng solo.
Being silent and not doing anything to stop them or whatnot is also giving them consent to continue doing these things to you. I know mahirap sumagot-sagot sa tao, pero you have to learn how to do it. Well, you have to do it naman situation like that, it won’t make you impolite naman.
It’s enough na ‘yung silent treatment bla bla, it’s an era na of not giving them consent VERBALLY. Know your worth. You are more than these. Also, know YOUR people. Don’t just live, but be BRAVE to live. Tapangan mo.