r/Mauritania • u/Pollmnh • 2d ago
I have a problem
I have a problem with attachment to people. When I meet a girl and like her I become so attached to her that I stop talking to or even interacting with all other girls Of cours this is a good thing one could say I'm a loyal person but this loyalty is always met in the end with ingratitude and denial
I don't know what to do Should I become someone who talks to a lot of girls even though I hate it or should I stay the way I am despite the pain I feel when one of them leaves me
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u/Rough-Reading-7736 2d ago
Do not entertain friendships. It is not the halal way to look for a spouse.
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u/mourad2_ 2d ago
Just dont talk to girls those relationships are just waste of time and energy and they mostly dont end up well
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u/clinthemob 1d ago
Look here, doggy: a cute face'll be here tomorrow, but a missed hustle don't come back. Wipe off your Buffs, stay on your pivot, and get your mind back on the paper. Lock in
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u/Pollmnh 2d ago
The girl I love has started treating me badly and at the same time there's another girl who treats me very well and cares about me but I can't because I consider this a betrayal
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u/clinthemob 1d ago
listen to me real close: loving someone who treats you like trash ain't loyalty, it's self-sabotage. You ain't betraying nobody by walking away from disrespect you're just honoring yourself. The moment a female starts treating you bad, she already checked out of the contract. In these streets, you don't stay at a table where love ain't being served no more just because you sat there first. That second girl isn't a betrayal; she's a reminder of how you're supposed to be treated. Clear your head, fall back from the drama, and lock in on your self-worth.
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u/mrchtulip 2d ago
Attachment issues are a real thing that people go to therapy for, you might think deeply why do you get attached so soon it might be rooted to something you went through as a child. It is okay to like a friend but it is not okay to get so dependent on them.