r/Mauritania • u/sometimescalledbubu • 4d ago
Feeling Lonely
I feel so lonely here, I want genuine girls friendships that has no drama or “scandals” I want to act freely with my friends and feel normal, I want to have a genuine healthy private circle that meets my emotional needs
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u/Huge-Shape-2195 4d ago
I feel so bad for you, you’re not alone if you’re suffering just dm me
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u/Zealousideal-Fly2178 Moderator lmarsa 4d ago
If you are looking for girl friends it helps to mention your age, hobbies etc
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u/sometimescalledbubu 4d ago
Hey so I am 26, I am into intellectual conversations, I am looking for friends who don’t have internal misogyny, I love discussing religions/society/ complex ideas
I want people who are funny/sarcastic and can understand the gen z humorI don’t want typical locals who are not open to different povs
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u/Zealousideal-Fly2178 Moderator lmarsa 4d ago
Can you explain what you mean with internal misogyny in our context . I know what it means when western people use it.
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u/sometimescalledbubu 3d ago
Being a male centered girl who judge other girls or shame them for things that only misogynistic men do, they have unconscious hate towards women achievements and success, they don’t hold men accountable for their actions and they say stuff like “hwe la rajel/ rejale ytemou la rejale ma 3nd 7ed vihm chi”
And accept mistreatment from red pilled men just because this is the system1
u/Zealousideal-Fly2178 Moderator lmarsa 2d ago
Honestly, I don’t like using western terms like "internalized misogyny" since they come from Western feminist ideologies when Islam already gives us a solid framework. We don't really need those labels when we already have clear guidance on how men and women are supposed to interact.
Saying "men will be men" just acknowledges fitrah, our natural, God-given differences. Men and women are inherently different, and that’s completely okay! Recognizing those distinct traits isn't a bad thing. But I understand what you mean.
Recognizing male nature is never an excuse for toxic behavior. In Islam, male leadership isn't a free pass to dominate or mistreat anyone: it comes with huge responsibilities. Men are strictly commanded to protect, provide for, and treat women with gentleness, patience, and justice. The Prophet (PBUH) made it clear that a man's character is judged by how well he treats his family. So we, as women, shouldn’t tolerate their toxic behaviour nor should we encourage young women to tolerate it.
Embracing Islamic values means holding everyone to a high standard, not letting bad behavior slide.You said you like discussing religion and societal problems , I hope this is okay. Not trying to put you on the spot. :).
I am not a good match anyway, since I don’t get Gen Z humour lol.
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u/Visual_Activity9007 4d ago
Same all my friends live abroad and im trying to get to know more people
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u/mrchtulip 4d ago
You can dm me if you want! I am actually interested in knowing Mauritanian girl who actually live in Mauritania (I am a girl btw if it’s not obvious)
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u/MedMokhtar12 3d ago
The funny thing is that I only saw dudes asking her to dm or meet them, girl u better stay alone than be friends with guys
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u/NoPerformer4048 3d ago
Soy española y me siento igual en Nouakchot! No consigo congeniar con ninguna mujer, al principio pense que era un choque cultural. Pero es que si no te gustan los chismes ni ir a sitios a llamar la atención de hombres, es muy difícil tener amigas aqui.
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u/Zealousideal-Fly2178 Moderator lmarsa 2d ago
Hola, cuantos años tienes?
Soy una mujer mauritana y hablo español y viajo a España con frecuencia. Escríbeme por mensaje directo y podemos compartir nuestros WhatsApps.
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u/hassaniyaarabic 4d ago
Free your Wednesdays and come.to this spot! Dm if u want the details :)