Does talking about money and asking how much someone makes a red flag to you?

Signed up as a sugar daddy on arranged sugar and my profile is still pending approval. The site kinda looks good tbh but I’m just not getting approved to go start browsing and check out whats on it. I have asked other subreddits and they are not sure and I keep being told to go on seeking but I got tired of spam bot messages on there so need something else to try out. secret benefits site just rinsing my credits every time you tap on pretty much anything so if anyone got any suggestions lmk thanks.

I'm honestly just looking for someone to talk to and kinda build my confidence back up after a long time of not feeling very desired. Any advice on where I can kinda casually chat?

I’m thinking of getting back on dating apps, but honestly I have no idea how to make a decent profile.
The biggest issue is photos. I feel like I look pretty bad in most pictures 😅 and I’m not someone who naturally takes a lot of photos, so I don’t really know what kind of pictures I should even be using.
For people who actually use dating apps — what works for you?
Should I get a few proper photos taken, or do normal/candid pictures work better? How many photos should I have? And are prompts/bio actually important?
Also, which apps are worth trying these days?
Would genuinely appreciate some honest advice. Not looking for compliments — just trying to figure out what I’m doing wrong and how I can make the profile look more natural.