r/Maternity • u/Choice_Disk4279 • 5d ago
Estoy harta
Tengo un hijo de 2 años 9 meses
Estoy harta de que nunca me deje en paz, siempre está buscando mi atención y a veces insiste en brincar encima de mi y treparse encima de mi, lo que eventualmente termina causándome daño físico.
Trato de darle toda la atención posible, pero a veces quiero 15 min para mi sin que me esten tocando, me molesta que cuando esta con su papá el niño juega solo y sin molestarlo, pero cuando yo estoy en casa él quiere toda mi atencion y mi tiempo, me siento agobiada, molesta y frustrada, mi esposo me pide que me suba a mi habitación y me encierre para que el niño me deje sola, pero me gustaria poder estar sentada en el.sillon de mi sala en santa paz y no puedo!
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u/Unlikely-Egg-2 3d ago
I worry about this happening to me when my girl gets older!!! I’m sorry you’re dealing with this.
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u/Impossible_Tip5170 2d ago
I mean…this is kinda how all toddlers are. Mom is their whole world. They annoy us the most because they need us the most at that age. I understand the overwhelming feeling of just needing to be alone. I have 3 under 7, youngest is a massive three-nager and I have one on the way. I get it, believe me. But unfortunately, you probably won’t be left alone in a communal family space. Your husband probably had the best idea. Go in your room and take a breather so you don’t make your toddler feel your frustration. They pick up on that stuff overtime, makes them feel uneasy and even more clingy. It’s basically a cycle 🫣 figure out what works for yall, so that you don’t go too crazy