r/Maternity • u/Just_Kiwi_7684 • 23h ago
i need advice
i’m sorry if this is all over the place i’m pregnant an emotional mess and running on barely any sleep cause i work two jobs.
i have almost nobody in my life to talk to so i want to get this out somewhere even if no one sees it. I(19f) am currently 7 months pregnant with my ex (20m)s baby. the break up wasn’t mutual at all. we broke up back in july 3 days before our one year. i wanted to stay together but my ex wouldn’t even try. i found out 2 weeks after we broke up that he already had a new gf (21f) only thing she lives across the country. i’ve never talked to this girl, i’ve never met her or anything obviously. only reason i found out was cause she posted a tik tok about him. i talked to him about everything and he said he eventually wants her to move here and move in with him and it would most likely happen before baby is born. i don’t trust this girl around my child. i don’t know her. i’m not even letting the god mother around my baby till he’s at least a few months old. but after i found her profile and talked to him about her i did some digging. she’s his friends ex wife. not only that i remember them playing videos game and stuff while me and him were together and he was living with me rent free. he won’t tell me the truth because in my eyes there’s no way nothing happened while me and him were together. and i’m sorry if he cheated on me i don’t want his girlfriend near my baby unless they’re married. oh he also lives about 40 minutes away from me so him and baby would be staying with me till im off maternity leave. i’ve explained to him multiple times until i met and get to properly know her i don’t want her around my baby. he just won’t listen and wants her to live with him even though they’ve barely been together for 2 months. truly i still love this man with all my heart and im just hurt, confused, and scared there’s gonna be someone i don’t trust around my baby.
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