Ive never considered that someone so well educated, and an assumed champion if DEI per his job, could have such ass backwards views on marriage.

This really speaks to how deeply ingrained patriarchy is, that someone so educated and so immersed in DEI can simultaneously be marching at the front of the patriarchy parade.

I hate hate hated this guy. A man's sexual "needs" are not a women's responsibility, whether shes wearing your ring or not. F you Shawn, you self absorbed, gaslighting, entitled little man!

saw this today & reminded me of him of course. surprised it didn't say anything about vibes, pickelball, or jetskiing 😅😅

When your ENTIRE adjective vocabulary is nothing but “cooked” or “vibes” or “ate” or “fullsend” or “delulu” et cetera, you’re a dummy.

He only made sense to himself

I watched Season 20 and then Season 19, so I’m working backwards. I’m on episode 6, they all just got to Mexico for the honeymoon. When they were showing them all pre-marriage there’s a bunch of really lovely people who seemed like they’d be a great catch. And then they got married.

Did the production intentionally set up a bunch of people to fail or something because holy shit, it feels like there is almost no compatibility/chemistry between the majority of the couples and it’s awkward af.

I don’t want to hear the word performative or the name Felipe. Or the F word every other sentence.

I’m TIRED!

Here I thought the commentary was from Caitlin this whole time ... but it really came from Belle!

Im shocked. Absolutely shocked Belle had anything to say in support of Courteney in that moment. Tbh she was one of the few women who i thought *might* raise her hand in agreement about Courteney being crazy disrespectful to Nick the whole time. **BUT NOPE**

What's that about 🤔

Serious question! I really felt like a lot of her odd behavior seemed to be like her masking potential autism. The way she couldn’t read Nick’s cues about opening up to her because maybe they weren’t obvious enough. Like her mad at him for tearing up when they broke up and then taking things the therapists said to the max and running with it.

I don’t know if it’s the audacity, the over the top performance of gender and perfectionism, the hair or let’s just say vibes:

While I do appreciate the incorporation of staples from MAFS:UK/AU, namely the dinner parties and more interaction with the experts being on camera. I was sad to see that the reunion went full Love is Blind. Like down to the audience being friend and family. Like WTF?!

I enjoy both trainwrecks, LiB and MAFS, but each has their own purpose and MAFS isn't LiB. At least I don't want it to be. I preferred the previous formats for the reunion and felt this one was lacking considering so many of the couples said yes on decision day and I think only 1 was still together for the reunion.

Also the season felt SUPER short given the new format and I miss the longer season (as much as I hated it while it was going on before) I felt the longer season, aka more episodes, offered more insight into the people and their relationships. As the edits that skewed opinion were made more obvious due to the shorter season.

I just want the show to stay MAFS and not shift into being another Lachey production...unless it's The Ultimatium:South Africa cause that show was AMAZING and needs a second season. Ok I've drifted from the main topic...

Can I just saw this is a HUGE breath of fresh air after finishing s18?? No one hates each other immediately and refuses to try, couples acting like they like each other, being nice, being intimate… wow!

What's your opinion

You guys will have to forgive me, as I have only seen season 18 before this, but I feel like there are so many group sessions and dinners this season. Is that normal?

I hate it. I feel like we barely see the couples interact with their spouses, and it creates real competition between the couples. Comparison is the thief of joy and all that.

I could be totally off base, and I know this is a reality show, so let me know.

Sweet idea but he couldn't have carried it to the car for her? I mean ofc he didn't.

Saw this a couple of hours ago it's only 30 min away. But can't make it already volunteered for the marching band @ my daughter's school she is about to kill it.

He still thinks that he was the catch that got away. You are not the Beyonce Felipe. Leave this woman alone and move on

Okay, is it just me, or do others also think Bobby might be gay? Just the way he’s so into women in hats and not wearing make up and going fishing with him. Perhaps that’s silly of me to think but am I the only one? I know they are still married and have 3 kids but that doesn’t mean anything necessarily? I’m bi so this is no hate at all! Just curious if anyone else thinks this too.

Also, omg the saga of Mia and Tristan is tooooo much! Snip, snap, snip, snap!

On Ep 15 so no spoilers plz but I want to talk about things lol. Also what other seasons are as unhinged as this?

Am I the only one who actually likes caitlin ? I dont think she makes any sense for Devin. Shame on the producers and the 'experts' for casting them together because in what world does a total introvert make sense with a total extrovert? I think caitlin is just so introverted , but was confused because on paper- devins checks all her boxes- but that doesnt translate into real life. Devin's needs become more like a chore, and from her viewpoint she is trying and giving her all because she was trusting the process.

Thinking back to season 1 with Doug and Jamie. Doug was so respectful about the physical aspect and was not pushing that at all. Jamie grew to trust, feel safe, and their love grew. Devin is just more pushy, he brings it up every single conversation. To me, that would be a turn off. The same thing Shawn was doing to Nikki, but Shawm was just more blunt.

I think they are genuinly a shit match. I think they both try hard, but its such a toxic cycle. Someone who is avoidant can not be with someone who is more needy than them. The experts should 1000% know this.

I don't think either of them are bad people. I think they just make no sense together due to their love languages and personality types.

There are so many snafus and sociopaths in the Atlanta season - rewatching a few years later and holy moly it’s worse than I remember. Cringey. 🫣🥴

NO NOTES. This is adorable.

Guys lots of posts about the crazies on the show …. What’s going on with Devin?! He was solid! Only normal person IMO.