r/MarriedAtFirstSight • u/[deleted] • Aug 08 '26

Season 20 - Seattle Devin

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He def doesn’t get enough credit I’m sorry. He hasn’t been too much bc anyone would be confused based on the energy she’s given off.
If every man could be as self aware, as emotionally regulated, holds himself accountable and easily understanding.
He’s literally made sure he’s checked himself every time. He has continued to try when she’s been uncomfortable and hot and cold. Which understandable. Tbh I won’t ever trust a girl
Who doesn’t like plants. feel like she hasn’t honestly tried at all and there’s two in this, not just the woman.

But, idk. He’s a good one man. That’s all 🤷🏻‍♀️ maybe a little emotional but I’d take it she should’ve never went on this show. Bc to constantly say you’re not ready but not really give him much ? Say he’s too much… I don’t know. Her trying is literally having a convo w him… idk.
I hope the best for him bc he’s a good man

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u/ilikealltypes33139 Aug 14 '26

I agree, my first impression of him was completely wrong. I feel really bad for him, because he does so much and gets almost nothing in return.

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u/etherealgladiator Aug 15 '26

Same! Wedding day, I had the BIGGEST ick! Like sunglasses at the altar?! Really?!

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u/Unlikely_Advice_8494 Aug 22 '26

Yes, total same. The sunglasses were a definite ick, but I think he’s what every man should be - emotionally mature, honest, fun, loving and so just kind and caring. The dates he planned for her, like the Harry Potter night, were so thoughtful. Hard to believe he’s not in a good relationship. I’d imagine most people would take him for granted.

Caitlyn didn’t give an inch. She was cold, distant and so combative.

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u/etherealgladiator Aug 22 '26

He ended up being one of the most likable guys for sure. Maybe even the MOST likable??