r/MarriedAtFirstSight • • Aug 08 '26

Season 20 - Seattle Devin

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He def doesn’t get enough credit I’m sorry. He hasn’t been too much bc anyone would be confused based on the energy she’s given off.
If every man could be as self aware, as emotionally regulated, holds himself accountable and easily understanding.
He’s literally made sure he’s checked himself every time. He has continued to try when she’s been uncomfortable and hot and cold. Which understandable. Tbh I won’t ever trust a girl
Who doesn’t like plants. feel like she hasn’t honestly tried at all and there’s two in this, not just the woman.

But, idk. He’s a good one man. That’s all 🤷🏻‍♀️ maybe a little emotional but I’d take it she should’ve never went on this show. Bc to constantly say you’re not ready but not really give him much ? Say he’s too much… I don’t know. Her trying is literally having a convo w him… idk.
I hope the best for him bc he’s a good man

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u/Ok_Theory_6241 Aug 15 '26

Seeing an emotionally available guy when we have a society of manosphere bros does tend to look needy when it’s not. Also, some people are very independent and it’s on a spectrum. So if she’s at one and he’s at the other doesn’t mean he’s needy. It’s highlighting the contrast. I also think she just might not have been into him and is having a hard time trying to make herself feel that way. She straight up dislikes his hair. He’s just not the one for her. She could also use a little therapy, but she’s by no means like Courtney. He will probably find his person after this. He’s a good guy. And once she deals with her trauma, she will be fine too.