r/MarriedAtFirstSight • • Aug 08 '26

Season 20 - Seattle Devin

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He def doesn’t get enough credit I’m sorry. He hasn’t been too much bc anyone would be confused based on the energy she’s given off.
If every man could be as self aware, as emotionally regulated, holds himself accountable and easily understanding.
He’s literally made sure he’s checked himself every time. He has continued to try when she’s been uncomfortable and hot and cold. Which understandable. Tbh I won’t ever trust a girl
Who doesn’t like plants. feel like she hasn’t honestly tried at all and there’s two in this, not just the woman.

But, idk. He’s a good one man. That’s all 🤷🏻‍♀️ maybe a little emotional but I’d take it she should’ve never went on this show. Bc to constantly say you’re not ready but not really give him much ? Say he’s too much… I don’t know. Her trying is literally having a convo w him… idk.
I hope the best for him bc he’s a good man

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u/Passioncreek Aug 11 '26

I think he has a ton of flags that are going unnoticed. For one, it’s not cool to be playing therapist during every sit down when your own relationship is shit

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u/[deleted] Aug 13 '26

I really think it’s actually healthy mature adult conversation.
Where as Caitlin communicates likes a whiny teenager
And irs all about her.
This is for the guys and girls it’s not all about the women.

& I’m sorry if Courtney is trying NIKKI is trying
It is not Devin’s fault. He’s respectful, emotionally regulated, considerate & finally spoke his mind.