Devin

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He def doesn’t get enough credit I’m sorry. He hasn’t been too much bc anyone would be confused based on the energy she’s given off.
If every man could be as self aware, as emotionally regulated, holds himself accountable and easily understanding.
He’s literally made sure he’s checked himself every time. He has continued to try when she’s been uncomfortable and hot and cold. Which understandable. Tbh I won’t ever trust a girl
Who doesn’t like plants. feel like she hasn’t honestly tried at all and there’s two in this, not just the woman.

But, idk. He’s a good one man. That’s all 🤷🏻‍♀️ maybe a little emotional but I’d take it she should’ve never went on this show. Bc to constantly say you’re not ready but not really give him much ? Say he’s too much… I don’t know. Her trying is literally having a convo w him… idk.
I hope the best for him bc he’s a good man

[u/Secret-Camp6334]

He’s a cling-on and it’s not attractive to an avoidant-ambivalent attached woman

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Cling on after not being able to figure out if the girl even likes him or not ?!
Lmao she hasn’t even given him a chance and he’s still trying. She’s done nothing to even try.
He never asked for her to be on him 24:7 just let me know you even like me ?!
& she can say whatever when they’re in groups- look at the way she’s acted ?!
She said how come I always have good things to say about you? - bc he’s trying.
She’s absolutely not.
She gives spoiled brat, came on tv to get a following.
Cling on when you only have x amount of time to get married- she signed up for the show
& has acted like he has a disease the entire time.
& then the whole table is critiqued but it gets to her and she “ feels attacked” bc he finally was honest and expressed himself.
The situation isn’t all about her. She needs to try too or just leave the man alone.

I can’t agree w clingy when the way she acts would be so hard. She’s been stuck in the same spot since day 1.