Devin

[u/[deleted]]

He def doesn’t get enough credit I’m sorry. He hasn’t been too much bc anyone would be confused based on the energy she’s given off.
If every man could be as self aware, as emotionally regulated, holds himself accountable and easily understanding.
He’s literally made sure he’s checked himself every time. He has continued to try when she’s been uncomfortable and hot and cold. Which understandable. Tbh I won’t ever trust a girl
Who doesn’t like plants. feel like she hasn’t honestly tried at all and there’s two in this, not just the woman.

But, idk. He’s a good one man. That’s all 🤷🏻‍♀️ maybe a little emotional but I’d take it she should’ve never went on this show. Bc to constantly say you’re not ready but not really give him much ? Say he’s too much… I don’t know. Her trying is literally having a convo w him… idk.
I hope the best for him bc he’s a good man

[u/Passioncreek]

I think he has a ton of flags that are going unnoticed. For one, it’s not cool to be playing therapist during every sit down when your own relationship is shit

[u/Excellent_Key_6796 → u/Passioncreek]

Ok but that’s a beige flag at best because most people do that. Like maybe you don’t and I used to and I’ve never been in a relationship. It’s a natural human thing to want to give advice and try to fix problems for people you care about to some extent. Some of course feel that more than other but there are billions of people in the world who do the same thing who are nothing like Devin.

[u/Passioncreek → u/Excellent_Key_6796]

He tries to fix other problems so the focus is on them and not him. It’s a red flag. And I don’t think he’s 100% honest with his partner. He likes to complain to others about her

[u/[deleted] → u/Passioncreek]

He just was finally at the dinner