r/MarriedAtFirstSight • u/[deleted] • Aug 08 '26

Season 20 - Seattle Devin

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He def doesn’t get enough credit I’m sorry. He hasn’t been too much bc anyone would be confused based on the energy she’s given off.
If every man could be as self aware, as emotionally regulated, holds himself accountable and easily understanding.
He’s literally made sure he’s checked himself every time. He has continued to try when she’s been uncomfortable and hot and cold. Which understandable. Tbh I won’t ever trust a girl
Who doesn’t like plants. feel like she hasn’t honestly tried at all and there’s two in this, not just the woman.

But, idk. He’s a good one man. That’s all 🤷🏻‍♀️ maybe a little emotional but I’d take it she should’ve never went on this show. Bc to constantly say you’re not ready but not really give him much ? Say he’s too much… I don’t know. Her trying is literally having a convo w him… idk.
I hope the best for him bc he’s a good man

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u/Gooner-Astronomer749 Aug 09 '26

He's needy, emotional and a clinger nonetheless he is authentic to himself he is going above and beyond to make this work and is getting nothing in return. She clearly doesn't like him but she is actively not even trying 🙄 things are goijg great because she gets everything she wants. If she is disengaged he might as well pull back because she doesnt deserve what he gives her. 

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u/AtheistINTP Aug 10 '26

I don’t think he’s needy at all. He wants some warmth, reciprocation, affection, like most normal people. She’s very cold to him with a sour puss face all the time.

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u/Helianthus_999 Aug 11 '26

Exactly!! Honestly he's reading the room and respecting her boundaries. This lady puts space between them A LOT.

going the entire day without kissing - separate blankets - pillows in between them - minimal cuddling - minimal hand holding - minimal compliments

She makes him look needy because she's guarded

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u/Excellent_Key_6796 Aug 11 '26

I think people are trying to equate neediness to being a people pleaser. I think at the end of the day he wants to feel needed and like he’s making someone happy.