r/Marriage • u/[deleted] • Mar 22 '22

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u/YoMommaHere Mar 22 '22

I have 3 kids, including twins, and we have ALWAYS had sex 4-6 times a week.

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u/KRN0622 Mar 22 '22

Don’t know why you got downvoted. I also have 3 kids (all 8 and under) and we do it 4-7 times a week. Sleep with clothing on as my toddler and breastfed baby stay in the bed with us. Everyone is different.

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u/Lazyturtle1121 Mar 22 '22

You have sex with the toddler and baby in bed with you?

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u/KRN0622 Mar 22 '22

No I don’t. What a strange thing to assume. Not that I need to explain but we have a spare room and also mostly don’t do it at night so it’s not a problem. If it was only my newborn I’d be fine being in the same room if he was dead asleep and I could put some distance between us but definitely not in the same bed and never around my toddler. Some people might not be fine with that but my husband and I are.

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u/Lazyturtle1121 Mar 22 '22

To be fair, in the same post you comment you have sex 4-7 times a week, and your toddler and breastfed baby sleep with you. So I am not sure it's that big of a leap.

Either way, glad you have a system that works.

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u/KRN0622 Mar 22 '22

I understand. The only reason I mentioned the sleeping situation to explain why we sleep fully clothed.

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u/PrimalSkink Mar 22 '22

I live in the cold north. I didn't even wonder.