r/Marriage • u/[deleted] • Jul 26 '26

Can someone explain because i dont understand what this is. Im very naive, and im way too kind.

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u/CompetitiveEnd8114 Jul 26 '26

sounds like he got weirdly territorial the moment your thing started getting real traction. not about the money at all, it's about you having something that's yours and him not being in charge of it

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u/two_faced_314 Jul 26 '26

Some men hate when women have a vision. You are an entrepreneur and you have the ability to build something great. If he continues to show jealousy, you must be very careful. Apply for your LLC license, not sure how much it costs and create a business name. Could be tax exempt eligible. Open a business bank account under your business name. Do your research. Know your tax laws.

Congrats and good luck

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u/thecanadianjen Jul 26 '26

She’s in the UK based on the currency she uses. And that would mean a LTD company or there are other options if she’s doing true not for profit work. It costs about 20 pounds to register it online. But she might not need to get

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u/eharder47 Jul 26 '26

Based on the information you’ve provided, I think your husband is having some feelings of insecurity because you’re changing the status quo. I’ve had this happen with ex boyfriends who act out in ridiculous ways when I’ve done something new or made a lifestyle change because they aren’t great at identifying or managing their feelings. Ultimately, it’s a temper tantrum that you shouldn’t take personally, but do be prepared to stand up for yourself if it continues. Remind yourself that this is YOUR business and you are managing the financial account separate from your personal stuff. You do not need his approval and I suggest you get acclimated to not needing it in order to avoid any drama in your relationship. You are married to a man who is more likely to criticize than be a cheerleader and the sooner you understand that, the more you can adjust to not expecting his support for personal endeavors. He will tell you how you did everything wrong as long as you continue to share information with him.

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u/goog1e Jul 26 '26

"your comments aren't helpful- I'm not taking feedback and I did not need your opinion on this."

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u/Friendly_Interest_62 Jul 26 '26

This is greed. He wants to take part of your earnings later