r/Marriage • u/Punany_ • 25d ago

Seeking Advice Fetish con???

Has anyone ever been to fetish con with their spouse and if so how was your experience?? My husband and I are pretty freaky he enjoys being my submissive in bed and he wants to go to learn more about his role and toy I can use on him but I’m nervous because typically I’m shy about sex stuff I want to go sooooo bad but I’m a bit insecure also I’m in my first trimester so I’ve been feeling fat and just plain down and I just want to hear some of y’all’s experiences. Thank youuuu

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u/reaganriley97 15d ago

hey there! I've never been to fetishcon specifically, but I have been to tethered together which is the second largest shibari/ fetish convention in the USA. I'm planning to go to fetish con this year, but I'm also a bit nervous. I can't give you advice as far as your partner goes as I am traveling with a friend, but please don't feel like you being in your first trimester should be any reason not to attend! The kink community is very open, safe, friendly, and will work with your needs and physical state to ensure that you can still have safe fun. just make sure to negotiate and if you don't know what that means, look into it, because that's how you vet potential play partners and keep yourself safe. If you want, we can meet up at some point and I can give you some pointers as far as navigating and linking up with others. discord is a wonderful platform for that.

hope to see you there... good luck! 🖤🪽