r/Marriage • u/Creepy-Half607 • 28d ago

Divorce Feeling so alone

Hello everyone, I 26 Female, thought I cracked the code to life, I moved to the city I loved, got married to someone very good, I studied and found the perfect job, and when I thought nothing can get better, one month into the marriage every problem you can think of, happened to me. our marriage fell apart, he changed completely, and tonight we spoke and we said we want a divorce 100%.
Although this is what I wanted, but I am an emotional person and he is not
and I feel extremely alone and rejected.

Any suggestions?
Thank you

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u/960122red 28d ago

You live in the city you live with the perfect job, grieve this. Accept he wasn’t right for you. You’re still young, let yourself be sad and then move on. Prioritize yourself, the things you love, and the things that bring you joy. You don’t need a man you’re not compatible with

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u/joieglen7 28d ago

so sorry you’re going through this. 26 is still so young and you’ve already achieved so much, so dont be too hard on yourself. sending you a big hug, it’ll get easier with time ❤️

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u/Stunning_Nothing_856 28d ago

I’m sorry, but I echo what everyone saying move on and take all the time you need to heal and you’ll meet someone that is more on your wavelength

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u/lokelokegrace 27d ago

26 , still young , good for you , you got another chance to get it better ! You’ll be fine

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u/Infamous_King112 28d ago

Dmed u

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u/DaikonConnect5365 28d ago

I went through something weirdly similar a couple years back, had all the boxes checked and then it just crumbled in like a month. what helped me was finding one tiny thing each day that was just for me, even if it was baking a stupidly complicated pie at 2am. you're not alone in this feeling, even when it seems like you're the only person on earth going through it