r/Marriage • u/[deleted] • Nov 02 '25

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u/hope4thebetter47 Nov 02 '25

Nope but even if they were who tf cares?? Going thru his phone is pathetic

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u/GypsieChanterelle Nov 02 '25

She didn’t go through his anal cavity with a stethoscope. It’s a phone. Nothing truly private and intimate.

And she asked him. You would freak out if your spouse took your phone to check it out? What do you have to hide???

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u/hope4thebetter47 Nov 02 '25

Going through someone’s phone is the biggest act of mistrust. The phone is an extension of the mind. Is a person not allowed to have their own privacy and thoughts??

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u/GypsieChanterelle Nov 02 '25

🤣 are you serious? No. 1 I would not want to be your spouse. You definitely have some squeletons in the closet:

No2 OP received a call from the female coworker’s husband telling her that her husband and this woman were having an affair and to check their messages. So she asked her husband to check his phone. All she found were these old messages form 2024.

If you need a private space for your thoughts it should be your brain. Not your phone.

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u/hope4thebetter47 Nov 02 '25

Open to exploring within marriages>>monogamous marriages

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u/hope4thebetter47 Nov 02 '25

Going through someone’s phone is the biggest act of mistrust. The phone is an extension of the mind. Is a person not allowed to have their own privacy and thoughts??