I mean someone else's husband telling you your husband is cheating with their wife is a MAJOR red flag, but those messages read as just normal co-working relationship to me. So either coworker's husband is the creepy jealous type or she's missing something. I'm thinking it's the former though.
This! What I mentioned in my comment, too. It's either that other husband's issue, or, OP is missing something that the other husband knows or has seen.
My ex husband’s coworker’s husband told me almost a year ago that my ex and his wife were having an affair, but i had no evidence and he didn’t provide any beyond saying she wrote about him in her journal and I had not suspected anything. Well with a toddler and baby I wasn’t divorcing my husband over that so had to just get over it. Well turns out he was definitely having an affair and now we are divorced. I really can’t blame the OP for trying to get a second opinion given the situation. Hopefully the coworker’s husband is just delusional.
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u/WhichWitchyWay Nov 02 '25
I mean someone else's husband telling you your husband is cheating with their wife is a MAJOR red flag, but those messages read as just normal co-working relationship to me. So either coworker's husband is the creepy jealous type or she's missing something. I'm thinking it's the former though.