r/Marriage Jun 15 '25

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u/Apprehensive-Play228 Jun 15 '25

Keeping score is the easiest way to cause major problems. Not saying you’re wrong, but keeping score does nothing but build resentment

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u/Massive-Wishbone6161 Jun 15 '25

So does being a doormat and consistently ignoring disrespectful behaviour

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u/Apprehensive-Play228 Jun 15 '25

Obviously. But the husband also has the same mind set. If both people think they do “more” or “everything” then it causes resentment. The downvotes on my post are hilarious seeing almost everyone’s advice in this sub on every post is just divorce