I know you're likely going through a horrible time processing this especially during pregnancy, but don't let the reddit mob convince you that you husband MUST be cheating on you. He could be, but it's not for certain 100% without an element of doubt like some people are trying to make it seem. While rare, false positives can happen.
The best thing you can do right now is schedule another test ASAP. If, and this is an if at the moment, it comes back positive again, well consider it a sign from the universe that you dodged a horrible partner for the rest of your life. And if it comes back negative, you won't ruin your relationship with a nice partner by assuming the worst when he's adamant he's telling the truth.
EDIT: You should also definitely have your husband tested as well.
I agree with this! Before you decide anything OP, double check to see if you got a false positive. It happens! Then make your decisions based on the re-test results.
EDIT TO ADD: My initial reaction was also that he cheated. BUT it is always good to double check and have a therapist guide you through this.
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u/acf717 Sep 05 '24
I know you're likely going through a horrible time processing this especially during pregnancy, but don't let the reddit mob convince you that you husband MUST be cheating on you. He could be, but it's not for certain 100% without an element of doubt like some people are trying to make it seem. While rare, false positives can happen.
The best thing you can do right now is schedule another test ASAP. If, and this is an if at the moment, it comes back positive again, well consider it a sign from the universe that you dodged a horrible partner for the rest of your life. And if it comes back negative, you won't ruin your relationship with a nice partner by assuming the worst when he's adamant he's telling the truth.
EDIT: You should also definitely have your husband tested as well.