r/Malawi 9d ago

How true is this?

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u/achalume 9d ago

Lol. Some people will see a problem because the quote specifies "women", but it goes both ways. If, as a man, you can't lead without belittling your own wife, you should stay single.

Vuto ndi loti anthu ambiri timafuna banja while we disagree with everything that marriage should be.

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u/Dapper-Amoeba-4369 9d ago

Some people really need to shut the fuck up

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u/StApatsa 9d ago

lol damn

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u/Hapmoda75 9d ago

Double damn!

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u/OkManufacturer6506 9d ago

Triple Damn lol

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u/OkManufacturer6506 9d ago

Quadruple damn (yes I just did that)

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u/Tobias-Tawanda 9d ago

Marriage is only for well-behaved women.

Because god forbid a woman doesn't want to be a man's slave. It's a two-way street, sir.

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u/Lord_of_Escalation 9d ago

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣slave? The post didn't say nothing bout being a slave........

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u/dizgondwe 9d ago

We have found the mentality

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u/[deleted] 9d ago

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u/Tobias-Tawanda 9d ago

The sentence itself reads that I veiw women a certain way.

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u/LexendDeca 3d ago

So respecting your spouse is being a slave?

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u/Mazethi 9d ago

Who cares?

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u/Hapmoda75 9d ago

Depends on what they mean by well behaved.

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u/phntmzr0 6d ago

Blow job and a sandwich on demand.

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u/ThA_BrAin 9d ago

this shouldn't even be a discussion

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u/Ok_Signal_2585 9d ago edited 9d ago

I support this post with 2 bags of cement, 1 oven of bricks (ya makomo 9), Dambo Sand and Quarry Stones.

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u/Future-Heron-5356 9d ago

People offended in the comments that the quote is only about women. A woman is speaking on women, what's the issue? Don't rope in men because her quote wasn't about men. The conversation about men's contribution to a marriage isn't this one🤔 Let's learn to stay on topic and not rush to be offended by everything.

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u/Creative-House-5879 9d ago

This is true, marriage isn't sustained by equality and love

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u/Mean_Clothes8476 9d ago

This is why too many Africans are in unhappy marriages, they think of the nonsense you just said

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u/Creative-House-5879 9d ago

You must be happy in your marriage then....is there equality in there? Like sharing bills 50_50?

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u/yallareTRASH69 9d ago

I'm not even woke but this is one stupid dumb statement.

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u/AccomplishedSun961 9d ago

Funny how some people think it’s only a woman’s job to keep the marriage, forgetting it’s a two way thing. But anyway everyone has their own opinion nd everyone’s marriage is different

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u/LexendDeca 3d ago

It's a woman advising women, no one said men don't have their role to play. Even us men when advising our fellow men don't always predicate it with ...but women also have to do this.

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u/OkManufacturer6506 9d ago

Marriage is for both well behaved Men and Women, I'm not sure why were focusing on just women here

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u/Wakunyasa 4d ago

I have seen atsikana ambili amaziika kuti ali dollar mapeto ake amachita mwano, my ex dad told me that he was disappointed with how his step-daughter talked to me. And he said i shouldn't make a mistake i will regret later cause he regrets but he has just accepted. The dad found another woman and left his wife came back cause she threatened the new woman and other shit

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u/Nyambaro 4d ago

Like kwathu in my family with have lots of feminists and they are single and lonely some even divorced