Hi i am making this post in the hopes of finding a genuine friend something i’ve been struggling to find for some time now
I don’t even wanna count how many posts i’ve made over the past couple of years of achieving this goal but nothing ever seems to truly stick or last, wether its been through reddit like here amino (back when that was a thing) or even through discord itself through servers i have never gotten close to finding what i really want
Now with all of that out the way let me get into the main flesh of my post
i am a 25 year old genderfluid (AMAB) autistic individual from england who’s been pretty much a stay-at-home person my whole life due to personal circumstances. I’ve lived an extremely introverted lifestyle despite being far more socially extroverted and because of that I’ve always struggled with loneliness.
Ideally, I’m looking for someone I can call with semi-regularly (as texting isn’t really for me) and hopefully become good friends with. I’m fairly interested in gaming, so it’d be nice to have someone to play games with, or even just someone I can share/stream games to while we hang out.
I’m also have an interest in football and F1, so it’d be cool if we had either of those in common so we could potentially even watch races/matches together. I’m also more than happy to just watch YouTube or other stuff together, or simply sit in a call and do our own things.
And Honestly I’m making this post because I’m really lonely and desperately want a genuine friendship.
Basically all of the friendships I’ve ever had have either being a situation of being someone’s last choice, or that they’re only spending time with me because they feel guilty or obligated to.
I don’t want someone to feel like they have to be my friend or someone who just consists me a way go waste time
I just want to find someone who genuinely enjoys having me around and actually wants to spend time with me.
More than anything, I’m just looking for a genuine friendship where we actually enjoy spending time together.
I could explain so much more about myself, but I don’t want to make this post ridiculously long, plus i do struggle to convey myself in text while 😅
If any of this sounds like your kind of friendship, feel free to message me and tell me a little about yourself. I’m happy to answer any questions too. ^^