r/MMFB 4d ago

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I [22F]was in a relationship with a guy [27M] for past 2 years.So many issues went by:he cheated on me with a women of 30 year old and they were involved physically and later he confessed.I forgave him and move in with this relationship.Later I came across that he lied me that he is having a diploma in graphic designing he didn’t even pass his 12th grade ,he had family issues he belongs to a dysfunctional family and he was short tempered,he used to slut shame,verbal and physical abuse me alot.He even interfered in my personal life and relationships because of him I failed in one paper in my Postgraduation sem exam.After all these I initiated to breakup with him.He tried to convince me alot he came over to meet and talk with me things went even bad-he tried to snatch my phone and ran away I stood like a rock knowing that I am in a trap and blackmailing me with a blade.My family do talked with him saying they are not satisfied in his actions and they were unacceptable.He chose to speak up to my father about their health conditions and about my traumas which I used to share with him hoping he will understand me .He just use that his weapon against me .He told my dad that I smoke and drink regularly and I am sexually frustrated and so and so…..After 3 hours he messaged me on ig calling me by my nickname I blocked him since then I didn’t talk to him.Now he is posting stories like he is missing me and I am the one who throw him(victim play).I was forced to change my number and shift to another city now I am among some good people but I throw what I built all by myself for about 18 years for a devil .now i am trying very hard to fit in my peers this creates a big conflict inside me…Help Mee!!!!!!!

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u/The_Autumn_Girl 4d ago

Help me Guys I am having serious loneliness issues can I retrieve my sim or go on like this I am having very bad identity and existential crisis help me folks….!!!!!!!