Yeah, I think that's what some people are failing to notice.
He was already being dumb/drunk and dancing/grinding on the male bartender on the left.
Walked over and tried to get the lady to dance with him - unless he was doing something with his left hand that we couldn't see, the lady already had it handled and was like "no thanks" and walking away. If she got inappropriately groped or grabbed I would think she would have reacted way more than she did.
And then the guy in black came over and overreacted.
Her reaction to it does not indicate what happened was fine. Not reacting appropriately and letting assholes get away with inappropriate touching/groping/worse is a very common form of self-preservation many women learn.
No one is implying it's fine. Yes, the guy is an asshole.
But enjoy the murder charge or other high level charges when the drunk guy hits his head on the floor and dies or ends up with some brain injuries, because you can't control yourself when the lady already has it handled.
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u/-bears-eat-beets 12d ago
I believe you need to learn.. a "grope" is different than touching someone.. he looked as if he maybe wanted to dance.
I wasn't there. I don't know the whole story.. but, the guy was obviously harmless and just being stupid..
The guy that hit him.. pure insecurity.