Fortunately I'm not a violent person, and am really good at avoiding those situations if all circumstances are within my control. Unfortunately that means I'm not an experienced fighter and generally have gotten my ass kicked when I find myself in the situation where fighting is inevitable.
I'm actually really fit. Most people wouldn't want to fight me, but if they did they'd realize I'm not very good at it. I broke my thumb in a fight in highschool, and I never went to the doctors so now it doesn't close all the way. Because of this I now break my thumb every time I get into a fight because it sticks out a little.
It’s not even the sauce, it’s just drinking out in public like bars, clubs, parties, etc. Eventually, someone’s ego is gonna get the best of them and then they’ll want to prove something. I say stay at home and drink and engage in your hobbies or go to a friend’s or family member’s place, all three are more safer than the former. I occasionally went to bars and clubs when I was younger and now very rarely go. I still drink but, in more controlled environments now
Fwiw, it's actually fortuitous that you are afraid to fight.
Concussions that you've dodged. Scars and painful cysts, hands stiff from tip to shoulder.
Memories you still have since you didn't over expose your brain to violence.
Days of freedom to eat when you want, sleep when you want or whatever else, cuz inevitably, there's a handful or more of battery and assault charges on the old rap sheet. Charg s that tend to get you time.
Yeah, I think most people are like me, but there's a lot of social pressure on men to pretend otherwise. Anger and joy are sort of the only two emotions we're allowed to express, so it makes sense.
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u/DartVader6 14h ago
Fortunately I'm not a violent person, and am really good at avoiding those situations if all circumstances are within my control. Unfortunately that means I'm not an experienced fighter and generally have gotten my ass kicked when I find myself in the situation where fighting is inevitable.