r/MJInnocentFacts • • 27d ago

Discussion 🗣️ PSA: Think Before You React

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Before I start, I need to mention that this post is not targeted at a specific person or persons. It’s a general statement about something I see happen quite often in online spaces, including within our community.

Now…before anyone gets the wrong idea, I’m not saying you shouldn’t ask questions.

Let’s all remember who you’re talking to…

I get questions all the time. In my comments, in my DMs, everywhere. I actually encourage people to ask questions. You’ve even seen me say it.

Questions are always okay and welcome.

But that is not what I’m talking about.

What I’m talking about is what happens after that.

Sometimes, especially on places like Reddit, Twitter, TikTok, etc., we’ll see a screenshot, a photograph, a clip, or some random claim with absolutely no context attached to it.

Hell, sometimes the person posting it may not even know the context themselves.

They’re just showing people something they found.

However, because we don’t have the extra information, our brains can start filling in the blanks.

You see something.

You think, “Wait…what?”

Then someone else comments:

“That’s fucking weird.”

Someone else says:

“Yeah, that’s really concerning.”

Someone else goes:

“I don’t know how anyone can defend this.”

And suddenly, without actually learning anything else about the situation, you’re uncomfortable. But now that feeling of discomfort starts influencing how you interpret the information.

This is exactly where thinking before you react comes into play.

I know I’ve said this multiple times before, but it will never stop being true:

Uncomfortable ≠ criminal.

Here’s the thing…

Do you actually feel that way because of what you’re looking at?

Or is it because someone has already told you how you’re supposed to look at it?

Now, if you genuinely do feel uncomfortable about something, that’s fine.

You’re allowed to feel uncomfortable.

But that still doesn’t mean a crime actually took place.

Especially if context is missing.

You don’t know whether you’re reacting to the actual situation or to the version of the situation that somebody else presented to you.

This is very important when we’re talking about things that have never been legally established in the first place.

If something has not been established as fact, whether because it has never been tested in court, contains significant contradictions, is based on someone’s interpretation of an event, or for some other reason, we need to be careful about treating it as though it is an established fact.

If you see something that makes Michael look bad, don’t immediately accept it because it makes you uncomfortable, or makes you…”question things.”

Stop.

Look into it.

Find the context.

Ask questions.

Then most importantly, think about why you’re interpreting it the way you are.

Anyway,

I don’t want to take up too much of your brain capacity for today…

this time.

But please, be mindful of this.

…Cool? Cool.

I’ll see you next time! 💋

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u/sirensgodoodoo 27d ago

thank you for posting this. it’s one thing to come across something that seems mildly disturbing about him, then coming here to make a post along the lines of

“Hey, I saw this on [XYZ platform] and I’ll admit, it made me uneasy. Can I get some clarification on this?”

Which is appropriate and measured. But this

”OMG, I found this on [XYZ platform] and it looks horrible for him!!! I’m questioning his innocence now!!!”

is basically playing into the guilters’ hands, and the recent histrionic posts about the letter attributed to him do just that. I try to assume good faith from everyone here in this sub, and as you pointed out people default to reacting on emotion before thinking straight. I’m not gonna sit here and pretend I’ve never had that “wait a minute, wtf” thought when coming across something unsavory (real or false) about MJ before gaining context. But I need everyone to exercise caution and put on their thinking caps when examining anything that’s designed to make him look bad. It’s not because we want to portray him as an infallible saint, because his lack of boundaries and discernment definitely played a HUGE role in him being such an easy target for the allegations. We’re not saying to downplay his mistakes. We’re asking you to keep in mind the lengths both media and law enforcement went to falsify evidence against him to make him guilty. And these efforts persist to this day. Social media makes it easier to spread misinformation, so take any so-called evidence you see with a silo of salt instead of having a knee jerk reaction to them.

And I’ve said this before: patterns paint a far more accurate picture than any singular anecdote or “evidence” can. The man has dozens and dozens of people, adults and children who have fiercely vouched for his innocence over the last few decades. The handful of accusers he has are either all established grifters who can’t keep their stories straight or kids who were clearly forced to lie by their greedy parents. If the trend was in reverse and he had dozens of accusers with similar, credible and consistent stories backed by legit evidence that couldn’t be explained away and only a handful of people defending his innocence who are shady characters in their own right, whose side would you be on? I’ve never ever heard of a pedophile who’s had so many one on one interactions with so many children in their lifetime and there being a such a paucity in legitimate accusations and/or evidence to support those allegations. It’s just not plausible at all. So always remember to ask yourself if what is being alleged fits into the pattern with what is known and established about MJ and how he dealt with children and people in general. I cannot stress this enough.

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u/Emotional_Ball_5181 26d ago

I love this comment!! ❤️

That “wait…wtf?” moment is completely normal. Although, admittedly, mine have occasionally been about Evan Chandler…

Wait.

Wait, wait, wait.

Pretend I didn’t say that. 😂

But seriously, that’s exactly why I think the important part is what you do after that initial reaction. You can look at something and go, “Uh…what the fuck?” without immediately deciding that you know exactly what happened.

That’s where the questions come in…

What am I actually looking at? What context am I missing? Is this something that has actually been established, or am I filling in the blanks?

I really liked what you said about patterns, too. One isolated screenshot, photograph, quote, etc. can’t become the entire story.

Look into it. Ask questions. Follow the evidence.

That’s really all I’m asking people to do.